In my country it is normal to live in extended family. Its been more than a year my boyfriend is still finding things to hurt me, in every possible revenge. Even I am at my house or his he always act the same. My family prefer us to separate and his mom always tell him to stop playing with my feelings. Either he loves me or stop the relationships. Myself I am getting too hurt. He is taking revenge on me as one year ago I had seen a boy friend with whom I had a passed.. may be it was not a good reason but I saw him as my boyfriend and I had register for marriage, and I tried to tell him that I was not ready and it was stressing to get married after 3 months of dating. At home seeing my family excited about me made me stresses and boyfriend threaten me to either marry him or leave me at that time but I didn't want. One day I did go out with my guy friend, I cried it was two weeks before civil wedding. My friend contacted my father to tell what was happening, and when our parents meet it succeeded to not be in hurry and my family calmed down about it. But due to that today he is like always trying to hurt my feelings, as I saw my guy friend I had passed with, even two weeks ago we saw one of my old classmate which was a guy from high school that did not even recognize him, he perceived and only shout my name, and when he realized I did not recognize him he told his name, and just because when saw me and shout my name my actual boyfriend wanted to beat him. Not its been 5days he is hurting my feelings. His mom telling me to come back at her home he won't do that she will speak to him, I said hurt me. over the phone he excuse himself and said that he will make an effort. Every time I excuse him. But should I listen to his mom and come to her home to stay with him or should I take my time? What will be your opinion?
My boyfriend is always hurting me, doing some kind on revenge as at the start of relationship I saw a friend that was a guy?
