My boyfriend is always hurting me, doing some kind on revenge as at the start of relationship I saw a friend that was a guy?

[Anonymous]

In my country it is normal to live in extended family. Its been more than a year my boyfriend is still finding things to hurt me, in every possible revenge. Even I am at my house or his he always act the same. My family prefer us to separate and his mom always tell him to stop playing with my feelings. Either he loves me or stop the relationships. Myself I am getting too hurt. He is taking revenge on me as one year ago I had seen a boy friend with whom I had a passed.. may be it was not a good reason but I saw him as my boyfriend and I had register for marriage, and I tried to tell him that I was not ready and it was stressing to get married after 3 months of dating. At home seeing my family excited about me made me stresses and boyfriend threaten me to either marry him or leave me at that time but I didn't want. One day I did go out with my guy friend, I cried it was two weeks before civil wedding. My friend contacted my father to tell what was happening, and when our parents meet it succeeded to not be in hurry and my family calmed down about it. But due to that today he is like always trying to hurt my feelings, as I saw my guy friend I had passed with, even two weeks ago we saw one of my old classmate which was a guy from high school that did not even recognize him, he perceived and only shout my name, and when he realized I did not recognize him he told his name, and just because when saw me and shout my name my actual boyfriend wanted to beat him. Not its been 5days he is hurting my feelings. His mom telling me to come back at her home he won't do that she will speak to him, I said hurt me. over the phone he excuse himself and said that he will make an effort. Every time I excuse him. But should I listen to his mom and come to her home to stay with him or should I take my time? What will be your opinion?

[20yearsolder]

How can you love someone that repeatedly hurts you? Are you that desperate for a boyfriend to put up with that bullshit. If you are then you deserve to be treated that way. You need to put a stop to it or in the relationship or plan on that happening to you the rest of your life. Good luck

[Guy13]

This sounds like a future train 🚂 wreck to me. Hello?

[Asker]

hello, I think too, I'm getting fed up of it

[Guy13]

I hate these kinds of situations…where I have to be the adult…and cut losses for everyone’s mental and physical health…I do not envy you.

[Anonymous]

You need to get rid of that clown before he seriously hurts you.

[Asker]

He is already hurting me. I would like to find a way to detach from him

[boggboss]

Why are u still with him if all he does is hurt you

[Asker]

I feel it difficult to leave, each time I want to

[boggboss]

Then thats on you if you want to remain miserable or not because he won't magically change

[CallmeTheKnight]

He obviously don't give a crap how you feel. Please stop being too stupid to see that someone hurting you is on purpose, especially after a whole year. Your folks are telling you right

[Rockstarrrrr]

I never understood how people stay in shitty relationships... I never understood their mentality... It's so weak

[Avicenna]

Sounds like this relationship should be ended now

[Asker]

I think this is what I will do

[Sparkie460]

If he's abusing you, leave him and don't talk to him anymore

[PatriceONeal]

Girl stays with toxic guy. Nothing is new under the sun.

[MountAverage]

He's abusing you, you need to leave him.