I have a girlfriend (I am a female as well ) and almost everyday I deal with one of her ex's over at the house we stay at because apparently they've remained friends w some of the people here do I have a right to be irritated about the situation?
If it’s a shared house/rented room then I’m sure you can understand it’s a strong possibility that “the ex” could still be friends with the housemates, as they would all have met; before you come into the picture.
I’m sure it’s a cause of concern to you, especially when you’re not there, but if you and your partner trust and respect one another then that’s the foundation of loyalty, so nothing would ever happen.
You can do three things…
Talk about it with your partner, ask them to let you know when “said person” is there when you’re not, in order to keep you in the loop about something you’ve communicated you feel uncomfortable about.
Or, you could be petty…(which is something I’d perhaps do once or twice…) When “said person” is at the house, be extra touchy and affectionate towards your partner and laugh (a little too loud) if they say something funny…dress up wearing something really flattering and talk about all the romantic things your partner has done for you to the flatmates…
Or, ignore “said person” and any thoughts or gut instincts about the situation, brush it off, paint a smile on and pretend like it doesn’t bother you… I do warn you, this will end up hurting nobody other than you.
Communication is vital for any relationship to work. Lastly,? one thing to keep in mind; you’re the present and the future for your partner and that “ex” is nothing but old rubbish!
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