I like to believe it can be found but so hard to find , Every new relationship is exciting in the beginning , the connection the chemistry the affection and intimacy is the best it will ever be , then slowly it starts fading , resentments start to build , arguing and criticizing and belittling and assuming the worst case scenario , analyzing, projecting , accusing etc. In time those things start to build a wall around the both of you trust is broken, pointing fingers at each other for things that have gone wrong , playing a victim without realizing we ourselves are all imperfect people and we all have flaws and we all have selfishness in us , Most people get into relationships without looking at the big picture , they will change themselves to appease their partner because it is new and exciting not realizing they are burying the things that really matter to them the most because this is new and exciting to them , eventually they start to miss those things they really enjoy the most and start resenting their partner for not being interested in those things they really enjoy , why it’s best to find someone that has a lot in common with you not someone pretending to have a lot in common with you , If a partner tries to get you to stop something that you really enjoy doing they are going to resent you for that and hold it against you. Why it’s important to be honest with your partner from the very beginning , If you can’t be honest with your partner and keep it a secret that secret will come back to haunt you , For a relationship to work both people have to remove selfishness for each other, wear each other’s shoes and make each other their number 1 priority , and sacrifice for each other , if those things can not be done then you are best to not waste your time getting into a relationship with that person be cause eventually they just become a convenience to you and it feels like they are just using you and stringing you along until something better comes into the picture , So bottomline if you can’t remove selfishness for each other your relationship will be doomed
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Love is what two people choose to create and nurture. Too many people assume it is the other person's responsibility to keep a relationship new and alive. Without team effort, any relationship will peter out. The more people work together on a relationship, the deeper the emotional connection. Unfortunately, too many people are too self-focused and inconsiderate of others, so healthy relationships are hard to find.
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I don't believe there's such a thing as true love can't we look for someone who can fulfill three basic needs and wants emotionally spiritually sexually
I hope it can still be found in these days…
I think it takes commitment and an understanding of the other personIt's hard to find but still exists.
I think it still exist.
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