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My stance on it is that if you are in an open relationship, go for it; if you are in a loving and committed monogamous relationship? Don't.
The reason that sexual behaviour with someone who isn't one's partner is a big deal is because part of what makes the monogamous relationship so beautiful and romantic is the implication inherit in it: that a person has chosen their partner over all others. The "choosing" I am speaking of has emotional and physical components to it in that you dedicate yourself to your partner exclusively in many emotional and physical ways. One such way that you exclusively dedicate yourself to your partner physically is through sexual behaviour. When the stripper comes in and does that job for you, your partner is no longer fully dedicated to you sexually, he isn't choosing you over everyone else. This is an especially big deal for those of us who tie sex and romance together. I personally do not want my partner to connect to other people on a romantic level, and because sex is inherently romantic for me, I am against.
If he has a stripper at his bachelor party, he’s getting his ring back and I will happily NOT walk down the aisle. Obviously I wouldn’t have one at my own either. It’s trashy and feels like a violation of trust
First of all, I'm not much of a party person, nor do I see myself getting hitched anytime soon, so it can't be for me. Moreover, I'm the sort of person who gets reeeeally uncomfortable if some random stranger or even a friend who I'm not that close to, regardless of gender, comes up to me, starts touching me and starts grinding against me. I think it's maybe because I still sometimes get PTSD from that one time I was abused as a kid by my neighbor's maid.
Anyways as for others, I really don't care, nor do I think you oughta be mean to strippers either. It's their job, isn't it? So there's a 95% chance they won't be catching feelings any time soon from you and neither should you, either. If you didn't want strippers, just don't call them. Like I said, if it WERE me or my bachelor party, I'd just tell my friends not to call strippers over and if they call them over regardless, I'll simply tell the girls "hey, would you mind maybe not touching me or giving me a lap dance? Go for my buddy Mujtaba instead, he loves that sorta stuff."
Stupid. I find it to be really inappropriate and self-defeating. You’ve found the love of your life; the woman you’re about to vow unending loyalty and faithfulness to. But your way of celebrating that is to intentionally put yourself in the presence of women who’s job it is to evoke lust? It’s just insane in my opinion. But then, I find the concept of “one last hurrah” to be stupid because I don’t think there should have been ANY hurrahs in the 1st place.
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I’d rather be his stripper in our own private party. Why have some stranger when I can pretty much do the same thing as her?
I'm sorry, but I'm kind of conservative this way. I don't want my man to be staring and stripping women. If he's getting married to me that's even more true. If he needs a strip tease I'll do it for him so he sees my naked body (and not some other woman's). I'll do all sort of dirty, raunchy sexual things to him that he really wants me to do. I'll fulfill sexual fantasies he has. I'll give him lots of sexual pleasure. I just want all of this to be done with me and not another woman. If he's seeing a woman's naked body I want it to be mine.
I apply these same rules to myself and if it's another guy's bachelor party
I think it's the stupidest thing I've ever heard of. If you're lucky enough to be in a great monogamous relationship, to the point where you're ready to get married, the LAST THING on earth people need is to be messing around with strippers to celebrate. I swear that custom was made up by some jealous fuckers who wanted to ruin the relationships.
When I got married neither of us even had Bachelor/Bachelorette parties. We seriously wanted to get married and why fuck it up? Just to entertain our jealous friends?
See, part of the problem with today's world is people do risky things, play with fire & then get surprised when they get burned. If you don't want your SO banging a stripper it's a bad idea for them to be with 10 whoring friends at a show with escorts.
I made sure to marry a woman who doesn't have whoring friends & who has no interest in strippers. She always said I can go to see strippers if I want but I honestly have no interest in it... & don't see the point of paying some whore.
Totally over clichéd, overrated, and a complete waste in my opinion. I don’t get it at all. Before my wedding I’ve only been to a strip club a couple of times and it did nothing for me. My wife felt the same way. So instead of this dumb tradition, we got together and had a party at a resort with all the close family and party member from each side and their others just get together and have a nice party together instead! It was a lot of fun. Folks went skiing and tubing and we got to share that fun!
Honestly? It seems so counterproductive.
Bachelor parties are supposed to be about commemorating a brotherhood, and bachelorette parties sisterhood - not relishing your last moments of sexual freedom!
I wouldn't invite one.
If someone else did, I'd leave since she is for the other guys... not me.
my friend kinda went through this and he was embarrassed and just dealt with it for a few minutes.
There's personalities that like this... or mentally screwed up people, depending on how ya look at it. I think it's stupid... and really, classless.
What is your stance on strippers at bachelor/bachelorette parties? They are no big deal. A right of passage for men. Hubby had some at his. I did not. No big deal.
*At your own party? I didn't have any and didn't want any.
*At your SO's party? I had them, I didn't care.
*What if it isn't for your SO but for a party that they are attending? That's fine.
There are some states that ban stripping businesses. So, you’re basically asking people who live in high populated states like Las Vegas and California.
Also, strippers are all time low now. There’s not much girls applying for those jobs and not much customers interested in going there anymore.
So, you’re basically asking “hey, would you rent porn at blockbuster?”
It depends, if it's some kind of show in a Magic mike or Burlesque type of thing, then sure go for it, if they bring you ln the stage even better.
But if it's just some girl giving you a lap dance or takes off her clothes for you then it's a no for me.
The third option would be to go together to a strip club, that i wouldn't object to
The whole idea of having a stripper at a bachelor party is the test of temptation.
You're supposed to turn down the stripper as a show of loyalty to your betrothed.
Then your friends can take over and do what they like and pay for with said stripper.
So I have mo problem having one or her having one but I do wanna confirm that she passed the test and ensure I do too.
Absolutely disgusting. Often times leads to cheating. I will not have a stripper at my bachelor party, neither will I want that at my future SO's party. I personally don't even believe in bachelor/bachelorette parties, but that's a whole 'nother story for a different day.
I would never have such a bachelor party for myself. I have been to those parties that other guys wanted, but it's not really my thing.
My bachelor party would involve lots of BBQ, music, a swimming pool, cold drinks, and maybe an ice cream/sundae bar.
If I was going to a strip club, it would be because my SO wants to go. I wouldn't have much interest in going alone.
Don't really mind, not that type that worries about such things. I had my "stag" a few weeks back and we need l called it a "slag do" as was me and 4 female friends and they didn't do a stripper. If they had I think I would have just felt really awkward
I think it’s pure adult entertainment, strippers are people to, I mean it takes a lot of balls to get naked in front of people you don’t know.. it’s a job like any other job (except the naked part lol) but as long as you can trust your SO then I say let them have fun etc. But if u don’t fully trust your SO then I say be very cautious cuz there are some trashy slutty strippers (the trashy ones are the ones that give all strippers a bad name ) .
It is well documented that women as well as men engage in sexual activity with strippers at bachelor/bachelorette parties. The answer to this depends on what mutual understanding the two partners (fiance and fiancee) have with each other. If they are agreed that they are monogamous after becoming engaged, then having a stripper at either party is inappropriate. However, if they agree that each can have fun until the wedding day, then it is fine. Talk about it with your partner first.
Back in the time when I got married (about 30 years ago), going to a strip club was very common for a guy's bachelor party. It was the duty of the best man to arrange it, and if the best man chained a bowling ball to the groom's leg, the strip club let the entire group in without having to pay a cover charge. For my bachelor party of 6 guy friends, we went bowling first, ate dinner there, then went to a strip club.
It's adult entertainment. They are paid dancers that are doing their job of entertaining. It's not like someone hired a group of hookers for a party. That could raise some eyebrows for sure. I think if your uncomfortable about dancers and think they will ruin marriage, well, it's probably already ruined TBH.
No big deal, ever seen movies like my best friends girl? Even taking a girl on a strip club date is actually a legit thing. If you gotten this far to the party before the mono marriage, you shouldn't have to worry about your partner doing something out of boundaries.
My wife went to a bachelorette party last year. All the other girls got naked. Everyone, including my wife, stroked the stripper's cock. No one sucked him. No one fucked him. Just enjoying the big bouncy thick cock. She showed me all the videos (I hope).
They had fun, I had fun when she came home.
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