'I can't just leave. He provides financially and truly loves me' Translation = I can't just leave. He provides financially and puts up with my dishonorable behavior.
There is an abundance of codependent, ego driven, toxic and dysfunctional relationships that come from poor relationship with self, lack of connection or acknowledgement with God, obsession with pleasure and parental upbringing. Each to their own...
The only way to have a healthy relationship is to find God and self, merge the two and find another whose done / doing the same. Anything less than that and it will simply fail.
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Wow that was really immature and stupid of you. He’s literally ATTACKED YOU. Next time it could be a PUNCH to the nose. To the side of the head. You could loose your vision! If he hits your eye.
He could’ve broken up with you, for the car, could’ve yelled, could’ve sent you to jail. Anything!
That looks like you don’t respect yourself. You should’ve at-least TAKEN A BREAK from him. For a month or something. To show him that it’s not okay and that you’re hurt.
Thats a narcissist, abusive, controlling, manipulative man. A man is NOT supposed to put his hands on a woman. EVER! That’s a coward.
A man that loves his woman would never, ever ever ever.. physically hurt her.
You know what you’ve done? You’ve told him that you don’t respect yourself, you’ve told him that what he did didn’t affect you whatsoever, AT ALL. You’ve told him that he’s allowed to do it again. You’ve told him that you lack confidence and security. You’ve told him that you can be walked all over like a stepping Matt. Youve told him that he’s not at fault for it AT ALL. You’ve told him that physical violence is okay. You’ve just affirmed that he right for doing that. You’ve told him that you’re like a child that knows no better.
And if you ever EVER. Have children with this person, he’s gonna be more than happy to physically assault them and commit child abuse. He’s gonna hurt the child or children physically and You’ve Not The Slightest Idea !! What type of trauma that’ll put upon an innocent child.
My Dad was Verbally Abusive yelling at the top of his lungs at my sister and I for some of the stupidest shyT, and now my sis and I have several different traumas. ANXIETY, my sister had SELF HARM, I had DEPRESSION here and there. He’d also bully and belittle us. He wouldn’t hit us… but definitely just attacking us with screams and words put a toll on us. all throughout our sorry lives!!!
And you said you’re doing this for “money”, then that means you don’t even love him either. You’re a golddiger! You’re just there using him as a bank. As a father. He ain’t you’re father!! You need to grow up and find another man that isn’t violent, or grow up and find yourself a better job, TWO JOBS. But you need to grow tf up!! Cause even if you’re “mindless “ and care little about yourself, if you have babies , then the ones being affected are the children.
NOT YOUR DUMBA—S!!😡😡😡
How old are you?
Are you doing this as a project? To see the responses and develop them into a storyline?
Sure, it's a spanking.
But you're an adult. If you don't want him to do it again then he should never do it again. Simple. If this was happening to my daughter then he and I would have a sincere conversation. Shortly there after he would suddenly have a hard time dressing himself.
If you're into getting spanked like an ignorant or belligerent toddler then do it and leave your silly drama out of here.
Tingles and excitement ins something spontaneous win over boring 200% of the time. It sounds a bit too much like an adult/child relationship if you ask me, but hey... as long as you two are happy!
Babe, guys don’t like to get spanked ☺️🤣🤣🤪
Girls love to be spanked especially while doggy style and I am like this at least but if you don’t like to get spanked, he should respect it and if he forgets twice or more, lady - RUN move onHe's foolish to stay with someone who steals his money & car and when she gets caught she says, "I just borrowed it". Congrats, you found a sucker.
it’s assault if anyone who hits u without consent. if it makes you uncomfortable, and he might do it again, i would probably end the relationship.
Well there you have it, stack enough paper and you can literally treat a woman however you like, they have no principles where coin is concerned.
I think you have made the right decision. Essentially you disrespected him and he duly chastised you with a spanking. You are in a place where you both can accept what happened and move on.
I mean that tells me that you do want to be spanked again… which tells me this is all a load of crap. Haha!
That your a idiot but thats fair enough many people stay in relationships where they don't like what someone does but too afried to leave
So I’m assuming you didn’t consent to the spanking the first time?
I guess my question is what did you do that made him spank you? The conversation looks like you did something that made him react in that way.
Arighty then
Worst decision of the day award goes to you 👏🏆
So you’re staying with a man who physically assaulted you…. That sounds like great idea…
This may be the biggest mistake of your life.
Did he send you this screenshot? Must be, because YOUR text should be on the RIGHT SIDE!
Good decision... BRAVO... now don't act like a 8-year-old brat, you'll be OK
It depends on what you did that he thought that spanking was reasonable.
Sooooo. . . gonna borrow the car again this weekend?
Is this fetish play? Then why are you trying to pretend to us it is not?
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