How serious do you take dreams?

[Finchie40]

You ever have dreams that make
You feel like it was a message? This past week I been having a lot of vivid dreams that when I wake up it makes me feel like should I take them seriously? I usually get this feeling when I have dreams of deceased loved ones that come into my dreams , like they are visiting me to let me know something, It’s the craziest thing. My girlfriend and I have been having issues and lately I been feeling like she is playing me , in my dreams, I will catch her with another guy and that she is cheating on me but the fucked up thing is , I am ok with it , I just want an answer and told her numerous times if she isn’t happy in this relationship than she needs to move on and start a new chapter , when I mention this stuff to her she gets mad and acts like I am being crazy to be thinking this way , but my gut instincts have been sending me warning signs and my dreams have been as well. Do you take dreams seriously or is it just subconscious mind?

[DizzyDesii]

Man im so sick of this weeks dreams already. So many of my fears fckin with me. In yesterdays dream, one of my main childhood crushes who was often interested in me in return, hit on my friend instead. And then in last nights dream, i couldnt escape my first ex so we got back together and then he left me for a man 💀 That was definitely several nightmares in one 🥵

[Finchie40]

I know a lot of my fears and insecurities arise from things that happened to me in the past and why it’s hard for me to fully trust but when shit like this happens to me it’s like WTF am I suppose to trust in these dreams or what lol My biggest fear is getting cheated on. Considering it has happened to me a few times in the past relationships, I understand we can not control someone’s actions but when I give my heart to someone I pray they are doing the same in return , people that can cheat on someone should end the relationship right then and there but they don’t they come back to you like nothing ever happened and lie to your face , it’s a sad world we live in. My thing is i was a single guy living a care free happy life before a girl comes into my life that wants to have a relationship with me then I give my heart to her and then she decides , I don’t want this anymore and goes and bangs some other dude , Like wtf , if you can’t settle with just one person then don’t get involved in a relationship is the way I look at it , you can’t expect someone to prioritize and value you if you can’t do the same for them , it’s a waste of time , if you need to screw random people then just stay single is how I look at it

[Luopio27]

Only message I felt hard was a girl telling me in my dreams that I try too hard to be what Im not.


Other than that, minor messiah encounters on my dreams was like ny body telling my mind to go est mexican food or something.

[Anonymous]

Id take recurring nightmares seriously.

[Finchie40]

She is going through menopause and I been reading so much on it to the point I don’t know what to do, all I know is my wants and needs aren’t being met , To the point I can just sit here being a constant punching bag or focus on myself and do what’s best for me , cuz for the past month I been feeling like I don’t matter to her and not receiving what I been giving , like I am being played and strung along, they say most girls cheat during menopause so am I supposed to just sit back and wait to see if she cheats on me or not? My wants and needs aren’t being met and it’s making me crazy that I am tolerating this shit. I don’t know what to do

[In_Trance]

not at all