Do you think most men are manipulative or is it women just don’t understand us so they say we are?

I have been told I’ve been manipulated when I known I 100% have not been. I’m very honest I known what I want and I often tell people we can try meeting in the middle but if not you can leave. I know so many girls who say all of their exs were manipulative … but starting to think that’s not true.
Do you think most men are manipulative or is it women just don’t understand us so they say we are?
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