Can a woman in a happy relationship still cheat if she's influenced by the right guy?

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BullShark · Accepted Answer

If she's happy, content and satisfied in her current relationship, there's really no reason for her to cheat, and those that say they would are just leeching off of their partners and don't actually love them. They're juat sticking around, taking whatever they can take until the next best thing comes around.

And this goes both ways and isn't gender specific behavior either. The last partner I had cheated on me with her ex. She used to say she loved me and it was a sort of "heat of the moment" thing (even though they were continuously seeing each other on multiple occasions), but her actions said otherwise. I was just too stupid to admit that she was the same sort of woman I mentioned in the previous paragraph above.

If you really truly love your S/O, you won't even need to look at another person, let alone cheat on you with them, because you only have feelings for them and the thought of even doing it with someone else would feel disgusting. Even though my own partner was cheating on me unbeknownst to me, I still genuinely loved her, and I had girls in my college practically throwing themselves at me, on occasions, but I wouldn't even spare them a glance, and they hated it. I will even go as far as to admit that there was one girl who forcibly even tried to entice me by pressing her chest against mine in the elevator once and I didn't even feel a boner at the time. In fact, I felt like throwing up and the minute the elevator stopped moving, I shoved her aside and bolted out of there.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

"Can a woman in a happy relationship still cheat if she's influenced by the right guy?"

1. "Can?" Yes, it is POSSIBLE.

2. Define happy relationship.

3. People cheat because they want the excitement of breaking the rules, rebelling, and they don't place any value in honoring their promises. It is not about the temptation of the particular other person who comes along.

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I view cheating while happy the same way as view eating a double whopper after spending 3 hours at a buffet, normal people don’t do that, only crazy intimacy gluttons.

Pinay_ako · Accepted Answer

If it was “happy”, she won’t be the least tempted. It could be the Devil himself, she will be loyal to her man till the end.

Screenwriter · Answer

Only person who can influence this woman is herself. No man or woman on earth can CAUSE or INFLUENCE her to cheat if she doesn''t want to and is happy.

Cheating comes from internal dissatisfaction and thinking that the grass is greener elsewhere, or someone outside of oneself can solve someone's personal problems.

It also comes from laziness. Someone needs to end a bad relationship and doesn't, and cheats HOPING the other person will end the relationship and do the work! But is OK about that person NOT leaving as long as they can continue to cheat and do what they want...

Qdbrown · Answer

It breaks down to two kinds of guys. The kinds of guys who want a girlfriend, and then the girls are willing to break all their rules to be with.

If a giy is weak in the relationship, he better learn to share. If the woman see the right guys, the panties just fly off. No questions asked.

If the woman is in a strong relationship, that doesn't necessarily mean happy or healthy, she will stick it out with her man.

Most men these days inspire a woman to cheat. Especially the ones who can't hold their boundaries that will get tested by her and give her something to believe in. If she can't see herself living the way she is today, she is quietly on the market, if even dating or married to someone.

Anonymous · Answer

well a dont cheat on men av never had proper love from men av been used for money or sex and last breakup ma man hit me a wacked him back even if he's a boyfriend fuck it he's no getting away way hitting me without getting a tankin back a dont let family hit me if thete angry without giving them a busted eye or a hit back so a wouldny let a shit head lover do it either if he cheated on me or not am not soft am no gonny beg nd say sorry one a hitter always a fucking hitter av always got these fist ready for action he slept with me gaslighted me ghosted me lied to me took a weapon to me and cheated on me but a didn't to him av got a more of a heart a wouldn't even do that to a basterd like that ad just walk away nd say fuck you learn yaa lesson yaa prick ure better off single instead of breaking every womens lufe you set your eyes on nd wait and see how you feel fuck face

KennethNoisewater · Answer

Yeah man. Unfortunately there is no longer loyalty in relationships. It's a thing of the past. Well I shouldn't say it's completely gone. It's more like your chances of winning powerball while being stuck by lightning while going down in a plane crash are twice as good as finding someone loyal. It's a harsh reality.

SkyCastle90 · Answer

No.

Women who cheat aren't happy to begin with. She's either unhappy with the relationship, her life, or herself. The "right guy," is simply a manipulative man who chooses to take advantage of her weaknesses and dishonesty like it's a game; however, it's her fault for cheating when she could have said no.

BlueScorpio · Answer

Yes. If the guy is very suave and has a a way with words, then he could easily sweep the lady off her feet and seduce her. But it's also about morals and self control.

Anonymous · Answer

I'll admit, I've cheated on guys before if they're poorly endowed, not that I love them any less, but if they can't get the job done in bed, I will eventually find me a bull to take care of things. I make sure my man gets off, I should get to get off too...

RiseofArtemis · Answer

Any person can cheat if they are influenced long enough. The ring you have on your hand was to say hands off to anyone else and tell them you are taken. Gosh I would love if there was a custom to kill adulterous people or the ones they cheated with as its usualy the same bastard.

There won't be a fuckboy if you kill them.

SolitarySolace · Answer

I’ve been cheated on 4 times and I’d like to think that at least one of them were happy. So either I’ve never made a women happy before and now that I’ve decided to stay single I never will, or they do cheat even when they’re happy. I mean, why else would there be open relationships, poly, etc if people who were happy didn’t cheat? I consider open relationships and poly to be cheating

Blueeyes81 · Answer

Yeah.

Some people self sabotage when good things happen to them.

Every couple fights even if they are overall in a hally relationship. Ot just takes a few drinks, the charming man, and anger about the fight.

Some people just like to get off and cave to attraction. If the opportunity arises type.

Some people need crazy amount of intimacy. They may be overall happy but feel lacking in the intimacy department.

Some women are just hoes.

Faith18letsgo · Answer

Oh for sure. People are very self sabotaging. Also sometimes people are just polyamorous.

aintme · Answer

a woman in a happy relationship means her guy is being hella committed and loyal to her. tbh that’s all a woman wants. so no, she wouldn’t cheat. pretty sure it’d hurt us with the thought of even hurting him.

SunnyCaliGirl · Answer

If she’s genuinely happy cheating will less likely happen, and if she still chests it’s a tell tell sign of what her personal values are and also says a lot what she what she thinks about herself

Autember · Answer

Yes, I do think that's possible. I honestly don't think monogamy is natural. But cheating is still wrong regardless, as anything you are doing behind your partner's back is not fair to them.

dustybiker · Answer

If the “woman” was self-destructive to begin with.

mobiusforniner · Answer

Women are more guided by their emotion. If she feels connected to another guy, she's not happy in her current relationship. Or at the very least, she will develop reasons for why the other guy is a better alternative.

dolemite89 · Answer

ya i don’t think cheating from either gender is always about their partner being inept as a lover or partner. a lot of times it can be that things just get boring with the same person after a while. it’s like that expression you show me a pretty woman and i’ll show you a guy that’s tired of having sex with her.

Literalbillionaire17 · Answer

Yeah I feel like anyone even if they are happy can have the urge and wanting to cheat if they are being sought after by the right person

Anonymous · Answer

It's of course possible but not NEARLY as likely as for a guy in a happy relationship. From what I've seen most girls who feel securely bonded to the guy they're sleeping with aren't super interested is sampling new dick for the hell of it. With guys it's a different story.

Anonymous · Answer

I don’t trust girls or women nowadays. Everything is masculinity is toxic, men should be more feminine, if a guy pursues a girl he’s a simp, blah blah blah. It doesn’t end. I think majority of girls and women want a male who’s 6ft+ with a 6 figure salary. That’s fine if that’s what they want but it’s not like I’m searching for that perfect Pamela Anderson-esq female in my life.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Of course! Women are naturally hypergamous. If they get a better offer, they bounce. They can’t know for sure if it’s a better offer without sampling the merch.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

If a woman cheats despite being in a happy relationship, the issue lies with her being a ho not with the guy's ability to pull.

AviatorTom · Answer

Can she? Of course she can... it's physically possible. Should she? Hell no! That's cheating and a bad mark on the relationship with her partner.

JDavid25 · Answer

Yeah it's impossible and it does happen, but it's less likely to happen.. If a woman is in a happy relationship she is in love, and if she is in love she'll jump through a black hole for you..

YollyM · Answer

It doesn't even have to be the right guy. A woman (or man) who lacks sexual discipline will cheat regardless of the state of her relationship or "the influence" of other guys.

Luopio27 · Answer

Depends how strong her morals are. This goes for men as well. There will always be hotter ones around the corner.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes they can, some people can give into temptation. I saw a movie this lady had an affair with a student. Things just happen. She felt sorry afterwards.

I met a lady online before. Always booking her a flight to come and see me, always paid her accommodation. I remembered this guy always trying to hit on her. She end up having sex with him.

qwert1234 · Answer

Yes. You can be happy in a relationship but still get attracted to other people.  And with the right direction, that attraction could lead into something else.

RealMarek · Answer

It depends on the moral fiber and self-control of the woman involved. Some people are impulsive and cheat without giving it much thought. Impulsivity correlates with low IQ, too.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Let me put it to you like this; people who cheat aren't happy. And if you are under the impression that they are, there is a seriously dangerous mental/emotional minefield hidden beneath them.

ArtieWhitefox · Answer

Committe to a person. Your male partner will appreciate it had you be faithful to him. It takes two to marry. That can be repeated. Solomon, Rehoboam Jacob and Esau had more than one wife. They did not sin.

daisydukeso · Answer

Not usually, it depends on the woman's personality. Same thing applies to men

TheFlak38 · Answer

Women are never happy and always try to do better.

Sarahr123 · Answer

No. A woman who will cheat will cheat and a woman who will not will never.

Zolly99999 · Answer

Definitely... it has happened to me a few times.

Tomcat68 · Answer

It depends on the girl and the circumstances. Some would but many wouldn’t.

Aimer07 · Answer

Unfortunately, it can be possible... the only way to be impossible is that she never meets that guy who can make this possible.

Friendlybro79 · Answer

I think the answer is universal to people not just women. Any person could be. It does t mean every person will.

Anonymous · Answer

Of course. She can cheat women can bored in happy relationships and need difference too.

maximumpower · Answer

Depends upon her moral compass. Sadly, most will.  Top reasons are $, looks, dong size, "gift of gab," and "exciting" personality.

TroyDT · Answer

Can she be in a happy relationship and still be selfish and inconsiderate? I suppose anyone could.

Libertycityguy · Answer

I don't think so. She would have to be unhappy in the relationship. I think a woman would more likely be able to seduce a man.

IndyZee · Answer

There are some excellent answers here. My thought is that given the right set of circumstances, people are vulnerable to straying... even those in a happy relationship.

MikeInHawaii · Answer

If she’s a cheater his “influence” isn’t what matters. It’s just giving her an excuse.

Roseboy · Answer

i think almost anybody can be manipulated into doing something

Anonymous · Answer

Neither women nor men cheat when they are happy and satisfied in a relationship. It may be different factors that motivate them to cheat, but men and women are no different in this respect.

Anonymous · Answer

Women are as loyal as cats. Any “better” option will make her switch sides.

MiseriaCantareAFI · Answer

There's a girl on here, who's dating two guys at the same time, apparently she's happy in both So, yes, She can "cheat"

736_switch_blade · Answer

I think every human being on earth has been tempted.

Anonymous · Answer

Of course. People don't cheat just because they're unhappy.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Absolutely. Modern women are always on the prowl for Chad Thundercock.

TonightYouu · Answer

Isn’t that the premise of at least 200 hallmark movies

OddBeMe · Answer

Its never the guy or gal that “attracts them” its their personality lacking loyalty.

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

All women will cheat if they think they've found a bigger better deal.

Zygum · Answer

Yes, I know many many, all women are not loyal and sincere to their partners, taste changers

Anonymous · Answer

yeah that's how the fuck she is a complete piece of shit like the fucking asshole who's cheating on me now

RosieMelts · Answer

The right guy? 😂 is it Mr. Grey?

melanieeeB · Answer

Happy relationship? Nope, I don't think so

petitedollbabee · Answer

If she’s a cheater, yeah.

Sarahplus2 · Answer

No. I don't cheat in a relationship.

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