If she's happy, content and satisfied in her current relationship, there's really no reason for her to cheat, and those that say they would are just leeching off of their partners and don't actually love them. They're juat sticking around, taking whatever they can take until the next best thing comes around.
And this goes both ways and isn't gender specific behavior either. The last partner I had cheated on me with her ex. She used to say she loved me and it was a sort of "heat of the moment" thing (even though they were continuously seeing each other on multiple occasions), but her actions said otherwise. I was just too stupid to admit that she was the same sort of woman I mentioned in the previous paragraph above.
If you really truly love your S/O, you won't even need to look at another person, let alone cheat on you with them, because you only have feelings for them and the thought of even doing it with someone else would feel disgusting. Even though my own partner was cheating on me unbeknownst to me, I still genuinely loved her, and I had girls in my college practically throwing themselves at me, on occasions, but I wouldn't even spare them a glance, and they hated it. I will even go as far as to admit that there was one girl who forcibly even tried to entice me by pressing her chest against mine in the elevator once and I didn't even feel a boner at the time. In fact, I felt like throwing up and the minute the elevator stopped moving, I shoved her aside and bolted out of there.
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"Can a woman in a happy relationship still cheat if she's influenced by the right guy?"
1. "Can?" Yes, it is POSSIBLE.
2. Define happy relationship.
3. People cheat because they want the excitement of breaking the rules, rebelling, and they don't place any value in honoring their promises. It is not about the temptation of the particular other person who comes along.
I view cheating while happy the same way as view eating a double whopper after spending 3 hours at a buffet, normal people don’t do that, only crazy intimacy gluttons.
If it was “happy”, she won’t be the least tempted. It could be the Devil himself, she will be loyal to her man till the end.
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Only person who can influence this woman is herself. No man or woman on earth can CAUSE or INFLUENCE her to cheat if she doesn''t want to and is happy.
Cheating comes from internal dissatisfaction and thinking that the grass is greener elsewhere, or someone outside of oneself can solve someone's personal problems.
It also comes from laziness. Someone needs to end a bad relationship and doesn't, and cheats HOPING the other person will end the relationship and do the work! But is OK about that person NOT leaving as long as they can continue to cheat and do what they want...
It breaks down to two kinds of guys. The kinds of guys who want a girlfriend, and then the girls are willing to break all their rules to be with.
If a giy is weak in the relationship, he better learn to share. If the woman see the right guys, the panties just fly off. No questions asked.
If the woman is in a strong relationship, that doesn't necessarily mean happy or healthy, she will stick it out with her man.
Most men these days inspire a woman to cheat. Especially the ones who can't hold their boundaries that will get tested by her and give her something to believe in. If she can't see herself living the way she is today, she is quietly on the market, if even dating or married to someone.
well a dont cheat on men av never had proper love from men av been used for money or sex and last breakup ma man hit me a wacked him back even if he's a boyfriend fuck it he's no getting away way hitting me without getting a tankin back a dont let family hit me if thete angry without giving them a busted eye or a hit back so a wouldny let a shit head lover do it either if he cheated on me or not am not soft am no gonny beg nd say sorry one a hitter always a fucking hitter av always got these fist ready for action he slept with me gaslighted me ghosted me lied to me took a weapon to me and cheated on me but a didn't to him av got a more of a heart a wouldn't even do that to a basterd like that ad just walk away nd say fuck you learn yaa lesson yaa prick ure better off single instead of breaking every womens lufe you set your eyes on nd wait and see how you feel fuck face
Yeah man. Unfortunately there is no longer loyalty in relationships. It's a thing of the past. Well I shouldn't say it's completely gone. It's more like your chances of winning powerball while being stuck by lightning while going down in a plane crash are twice as good as finding someone loyal. It's a harsh reality.
No.
Women who cheat aren't happy to begin with. She's either unhappy with the relationship, her life, or herself. The "right guy," is simply a manipulative man who chooses to take advantage of her weaknesses and dishonesty like it's a game; however, it's her fault for cheating when she could have said no.
Yes. If the guy is very suave and has a a way with words, then he could easily sweep the lady off her feet and seduce her. But it's also about morals and self control.
I'll admit, I've cheated on guys before if they're poorly endowed, not that I love them any less, but if they can't get the job done in bed, I will eventually find me a bull to take care of things. I make sure my man gets off, I should get to get off too...
Any person can cheat if they are influenced long enough. The ring you have on your hand was to say hands off to anyone else and tell them you are taken. Gosh I would love if there was a custom to kill adulterous people or the ones they cheated with as its usualy the same bastard.
There won't be a fuckboy if you kill them.
I’ve been cheated on 4 times and I’d like to think that at least one of them were happy. So either I’ve never made a women happy before and now that I’ve decided to stay single I never will, or they do cheat even when they’re happy. I mean, why else would there be open relationships, poly, etc if people who were happy didn’t cheat? I consider open relationships and poly to be cheating
Yeah.
Some people self sabotage when good things happen to them.
Every couple fights even if they are overall in a hally relationship. Ot just takes a few drinks, the charming man, and anger about the fight.
Some people just like to get off and cave to attraction. If the opportunity arises type.
Some people need crazy amount of intimacy. They may be overall happy but feel lacking in the intimacy department.
Some women are just hoes.
Oh for sure. People are very self sabotaging. Also sometimes people are just polyamorous.
a woman in a happy relationship means her guy is being hella committed and loyal to her. tbh that’s all a woman wants. so no, she wouldn’t cheat. pretty sure it’d hurt us with the thought of even hurting him.
If she’s genuinely happy cheating will less likely happen, and if she still chests it’s a tell tell sign of what her personal values are and also says a lot what she what she thinks about herself
Yes, I do think that's possible. I honestly don't think monogamy is natural. But cheating is still wrong regardless, as anything you are doing behind your partner's back is not fair to them.
If the “woman” was self-destructive to begin with.
Women are more guided by their emotion. If she feels connected to another guy, she's not happy in her current relationship. Or at the very least, she will develop reasons for why the other guy is a better alternative.
ya i don’t think cheating from either gender is always about their partner being inept as a lover or partner. a lot of times it can be that things just get boring with the same person after a while. it’s like that expression you show me a pretty woman and i’ll show you a guy that’s tired of having sex with her.
Yeah I feel like anyone even if they are happy can have the urge and wanting to cheat if they are being sought after by the right person
It's of course possible but not NEARLY as likely as for a guy in a happy relationship. From what I've seen most girls who feel securely bonded to the guy they're sleeping with aren't super interested is sampling new dick for the hell of it. With guys it's a different story.
Depends how strong her morals are. This goes for men as well. There will always be hotter ones around the corner.
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