“A woman cheating is way worse than a man cheating? Ladies & fellas, thoughts? (Page 2)
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On the money Pinay_ako. But a woman can come home pregnant as well so that is more consequential than a man having ejaculated into another girl (from the viewpoint of the couple). You could argue the man cheating is no more consequential than him wanking in the shower over some girl he saw on the street or in a porn video.
From a bioethics view men who had the most breeding opportunities are likely to have left the most progeny. That's to the point that about 10% of Irishmen are descended from one Irish king. And then there is Genghis Khan.
For women having sex with more men doesn't equate with having more progeny but from the bioethics view it does make sense to get pregnant to a man with the best genes available and her husband may not have the best genes on the block.
There is a lot of research evidence that women are more likely to seek good genes in their fertile phase.
Your statement is true. Men are naturaly made to screw any woman who lets them. Women on the other hand need a certain amount of trust to have sex with someone. It's biologicaly programmed into women to have sex with someone they trust enough to have a child with as sex by nature is meant to create babies.
Men don't have that issue. It's only been a problem since the pill got invented that people think women cheat the same way.
If you really think women don't cheat for the same reasons we do you are naive.
Cheating is cheating. The excuses don’t matter. Cheaters are selfish, inconsiderate and disrespectful. There’s no point in arguing about who hurts more. Getting cheated on hurts. There’s no point in arguing who’s the bigger POS. All cheaters are POS. It should be punishable by death.
I blame the woman more.
A man most of the time is just trying to get sex, it's not often personal, and some of the time he doesn't know she has a husband or boyfriend. The guy cannot touch her unless she entertained his attention other wise it'd be grape. Or harassment so I blame her for entertaining it. But by then she's already placed you in a different category. The category of men she'll cheat on.
A man can fuck another woman and still love his woman
But for a woman to allow another man to touch her. Her man has to become less than in her mind. That is an emotional switch very difficult to switch back on.
I'm sure there are cases of women loving their hubby and going after pure sex but that isn't the majority of Cases, usually you'll hear about how good the new guy made her ,, feel,, and there are predatory guys who know they're married and talk a good game.
If my wife cheated on me. It's over. More than over.
I don't know about that quote, but a woman cheating is letting another man have access to her womb, ergo possibly a child.
All contraceptives can fail.
The men I've known that cheated did so because of a lack of sex rather than a desire for someone else.
If you don't care for your spouse they'll find someone who will.
When women cheat, they do it because of hypergamy, and there is nothing you can do to stop it - they will always keep right on doing it.
Any man who finds out that his woman has been cheating and does not immediately dump her and never go back to her is a sucker and a simp. Women cannot be rehabilitated and should never be given the benefit of the doubt.
All women lie, cheat, and steal eventually. It is not a question of if, it is a question of when, and of what you will do about it.
Women also cheat because they are “upset” with their bfs/husbands. They feel more justified to do this crap.
Maybe their boyfriend/husband did something shitty (emotional abuse) which isn’t cool. But in her mind she feels “he made me feel bad so I’ll make him feel bad”. She thinks it’s okay when it absolutely isn’t.
Anyway men don’t usually gaslight women when they cheat. They either admit their scumbags and don’t care about the consequences OR they take complete ownership and accept the consequences. But either way a man will never get away with the “oh she made me feel special and you weren’t there for me” bs.
@globetrotter22 well said
They also cheat just because they want to fuck. There is not a single reason why people cheat that applies just to men or just to women.
@globetrotter22 it's not BS. When I was younger I cheated on my girlfriend exactly because another girl was there for me. If that is a good excuse? No. Cheating never has a good excuse. But it certainly is not bs.
@This_Is_My_Opinion8 I cheated in my first girlfriend in HS. A neighborhood girl (who was cuter) aggressively seduced me. I held out for a while but caved. I was 16 and my hormones were raging.
Now was that an excuse? Hell no. Not at all. I knew it was wrong and was conscious stricken. I actually confessed it to my then girlfriend without her asking about it. She was furious and dumped me a week later (which I deserved).
But the bottom line is I OWNED up to my mistake and accepted the consequence. I didn’t blame my then girlfriend for what I did. After that I never cheated again on anybody for the rest of my life. I have been flirty with other women when I had a girlfriend (not cool either but not the same as outright cheating). But I always drew the line.
Men having a bunch of women is a proven model dating back to ancient times.
You know who the child's parents are, if he's rich and providing for everyone it's all good.
On the other hand women cheating confuses the matter of parentage, and makes her someone a man can't trust to invest in caring providing for.
The social dynamic is very different.
That said I think male cheating is immature and implies he's doing something wrong, which is why I'm openly polyamorous. I don't even have as much sex as I could be because I'd prefer to have an emotional connection. It doesn't have the same hold over me as does for a lot of guys, so I'm free to just enjoy life on my own terms.
It feels true. It seems there is always more of an emotional element from the women's side and that is what causes the real pain knowing they're more connected to someone else both sexually and emotionally, and the loss of trust as a result. It's pretty hard to come back from that because if you try to hard to 'fix' things you look desperate, and if you don't react they'll take is an OK to carry on. If it's clear they really don't give a fuck anymore then you'll have to accept they're effectively already gone.
It's not about the gender. If you're a cheater you're a cheater and it's equally bad.
In this days 14yr old is more mature than oldies.. words 🔥
@savagewolf22 who you calling oldies, punk? 😜
LMAO
@Pinay_ako
I'm calling oldies as a oldie's. 😜
So if we are oldies does that make @blackcosmo a newbie?
You Noob. :p lol jk
@Still-alive If y'all are oldies that means I must be a pro!
Lol i see what you did there 😎
@Still-alive Hehe
I don't know that women think it's "worse" if you ask them, BUT, in general I think there's a lot of truth to that statement. Men don't equate "love" with fidelity the way a woman does (or claims to!). Men can easily compartmentalize and say to themselves
... got cut off... Men will rationalize a chance to fuck their "fantasy girl" or "dream girl" or just someone incredibly hot because "I'll never get that chance again and it's only sex! It doesn't mean I love her, and it doesn't mean I don't love you!"
They both belong to the streets. It's not a matter of who's more wrong as they're both scumbags. You don't get to violate a person's trust like that and then explain it away as though you're the victim of circumstance.
women cheat for lust all the same as well. they just don't call it cheating. they call it having an affair.
Or an “entanglement”. 🙃
@dynamicyandere yeah and then their husband gets emotionally unstable and slaps chris rock on stage.
Haha, yeah. The dysfunction of that couple is next level.
🤣 he already apologized
some fuck ups are just too big for an appology xD
🤣 and delayed
yeah he wasn't sorry at all. his pr team told him to say sorry.
Cheating is bad, regardless of gender. I disagree with the quote.
" I cheated on you but I still love you "
the nerve on that claim... lmfao, hilarious
False, they are both equally wrong, You don’t Love someone if you cheat on them period , this was probably written by a guy who cheated and making excuses for his actions , not accepting the fact that he was a piece of shit
I think this is true to an extent, maybe a rule of thumb, but there are exceptions of course. Now, to say one is worse than the other, I'm going to abstract from such a judgement as both is betrayal in my eyes, and I hate betrayal. Whatever your motive may be, you still stabbed your partner in the back.
No. Anyone cheating is bad. Losing a cheater is no loss. But a cheater takes the trust of the person cheated on and can make it harder for that person to trust one who is worthy of thier trust. That's the real tragedy.
I would say your quote is man´s statement, I´m not sure if it´s true because I think if you´re the one being cheated on it will ever hurt.
Though the statement sounds plausible it just raises for me the question of the clear displayed gender roles like guys just cheat for lust reasons and females because they´ve fallen out of love sounds too easy to me. Why can´t it be also the other way round?
Nothing about human sexuality is simple. There are various reasons why people cheat. Cheating is wrong because the innocent spouse is now in a non-consensual relationship. They agreed to and remain in the marriage on the promise that their partner would remain faithful. And no, it's not worse if a woman cheats. I'm leaning toward it being worse if the man cheats because STDs are more easily transmitted to women.
Cheating is cheating. Your gender doesn’t make it any less hurtful to your partner if you cheat. So that image is nonsense.