Would you want to be someone’s’ first girlfriend/boyfriend if they are older than 25? (Page 2)
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I would personally want to know why. I wouldn't directly ask, but rather observe. Knowing how people being single forever is rising, I would understand perfectly well the struggles she has gone through (or at least can try to)
Yes of course for me age doesn't really matter if you're a beautiful on the inside that's all that matters to me
I'm not sure. As someone who didn't have a relationship till 35 I'd be able to empathise a lot, but with two kids I don't have a lot of free time so not sure I'd have the patience
I'd like to be a girls first boyfriend. I don't care how old they are (as long as they're over 18, and under 30).
I would prefer not to be, but I realize how screwed up relationships are right now. People simply aren't doing much dating or hooking up these days because they are scared of getting hurt.
I never had experiences, so I would definitely prefer someone who didn't had.
Even if it's quiet difficult
Depends on various factors, but in general, who cares if they haven’t had one.
It would make no difference to me. I would treat her with respect and gentleness.
I prefer someone with relationship experience. A first relationship comes with a lot of problems.
I see no problem with that. Besides, if I ever have a boyfriend I'll be older than 25.
Yes unless it because she was having casual sex, I am not into hos.
Yes, but if I HAVE MORE EXPERIENCE than them, don't want them to FREAK OUT!
I prefer To be by myself for the remainder of my life.
Sure, why not. It would be better than being the 20 + person she was with.
I think I would, it's just as fun as dating anyone who's experiencing things for the first time, but with some added maturity in the mix.
Realistically, there are no really attractive women who would never have had a boyfriend before 25 unless they have some MAJOR hangups or issues. So no, probably not.
Can you give me examples about major hungups or issues?
Basically anything that makes someone steer clear of sex and relationships for far longer than what would be normal. So things like having been sexually abused or faced other major mental/emotional trauma. Could also be having issues with sex due to unhealthy religious or cultural views. Basically anything that leads to having major issues.
I’d rather than be their second but I’m not seriously dating a woman who is 25 either way so.
Why don’t you date?
Because I want to build a life with someone and by 25 I feel like we’re too old to really build a life together.
But you are 27, aren’t you?
Yeah so I’ve mostly giving up on a serious monogamous relationship. Maybe if the girl was younger then it’d still be ok. But at least to me the age that the woman is at when we start dating is super important.
I change my mind If they had literally no dating or sex experience at 25 I still might go for it but I’d be more hesitant tbh
I don't think not having experience matters, everyone starts somewhere maybe they were more focused on academics or hadn't met the right person yet. Personally, if they had been in an out of relationships that would be a much bigger red flag.
Not a chance. At that age they should have had at least one or two heartbreaks already if there isn't something that people found as a red flag.
I wouldn't care if she has never even been on a date.