How do I support my older cousin who doesn't have a guy in life?

[Anonymous]

I feel bad that she has never been able to find a guy in her life and get married. I can tell she gets very depressed about it and I feel bad because I've just into a new relationship and sometimes I'm not online to call etc

[LordBailey]

You stay out of her personal life and reinforce that you love her for her. The right man will come when it is time for him to do so. If for some reason she is constantly turning men away because of a bad attitude or being psychically unfit then that is something to really give some time to think about. Just being sex object is not enough to give you a long term relationship. You got to bring value and strength which if you don't have, well no wonder anyone would be single.

[Bolty44]

You can dress her up teach her some elegant feminine body language and how to talk with men and support them be engaging with them get info out and help them through this she can make some bond and arrenge some dates for her with a guy that's all you can do after that it's all on her

[Eternallylucky]

did she ask you for help? or you trying to save her?

[jshm2]

You don't.

She's probably toxic or crazy and has isolated herself. Don't waste your life propping up hers.

[Asker]

I'm starting to think she is crazy as a lot of people end up stop talking to her

[Asker]

Her brother did in the past for awhile

[Cheerfull009]

Your cousin is not beautiful or not social, otherwise many boys are

Wandering for pussy, keeping their dicks in their hands

[Anonymous]

She'll get over it. Look on the bright side. She never been dumped either.

[Danny_dan92]

That’s not your problem

[Asker]

I guess she should be putting more effort into finding someone I guess it must hurt at her age being single

[Danny_dan92]

Maybe she doesn’t want a relationship. Like I said, that isn’t your problem. Worry about yourself

[Asker]

She deffo does she always cries bout it

[Danny_dan92]

Not. Your. Problem

[Asker]

I know I just don't know what to sat

[Idi4btn]

Hug her

[Asker]

she's in her 40s and I told her straight that the guy she was talking isn't into her as it doesn't take 4 years to commit I'm worried she will get depressed

[Idi4btn]

She needa get rid of that loser in order to move on. How can she be happy with dead weight shackled around her

[Asker]

I kept telling her he's not into her but I think she finally woke up and I hope she moves on

[Idi4btn]

Yeah... And dont give men sex and wife benefits without being his wife.

[Asker]

Well he never made a move at all but she thought he was into her becuase he talk to her

[Idi4btn]

Ohhh... Did he never ask her to be his girlfriend?

[Asker]

No he never just talked like a friend

[Idi4btn]

Ok so how is he a boyfriend of 4 years thn i dont get it

[Asker]

No I mean she's been wasting her time on a guy for 4 years who isn't even into her

[Idi4btn]

Do they bang

[Asker]

No he has never flirted or they haven't done anything sexual he's said she's like a sister to him