I feel bad for my cousin who is in her mid 40s and she's never been married how do I keep her from feeling alone?

[Anonymous]

[YourFavoriteFriend]

She's either single by choice or the classic "he's not good enough" case. In any case, you have no reason to "feel bad" about her. If she's a good company, just hung out and have fun and let her be and do whatever she wants in this part of her life!

[Jdjfjcjj]

Was it because of lifestyle she choose when she was younger?

The fact is, there are many guys who will even take a woman with 5 different baby daddies. I suspect it's her standards that keep her single. As she gets older, if she doesn't want to be lonely, she'll likely need to lower those standards

[melanieeeB]

Marriage isn't the world! She is lucky to be happy and single, instead of trapped in an awful marriage to an awful man

[scott04sa22]

Let her stay single. It’s her choice. I’m almost close to her age and I still can’t find anybody good. My ex girlfriend family were very judgmental towards me. I know single sometimes suck but there’s a reason why some of us can’t find love.

[Asker]

What is the reason

[FilmGuy93]

Just spend time with her and don’t put her in situations that remind her how single she is.

[Asker]

she's always talking about dating tho I don't bring it up at all

[FilmGuy93]

Yeah… that’s what happens to a lot of women when they reach that age. It’s quite sad. The time to lock a man down has basically passed them, and they’re feeling frustrated, confused, undesired, used, and scared of being alone. Women who wanted to have kids get especially upset because they’ve pretty much missed out on their chance. I have a great deal of sympathy for those women 🫤

[Anonymous]

Don't! Clearly she'd rather be single or she'd be married by now.

[teamvic]

Hmmm maybe get her to make a tinder

[Snedger____]

Tinder like the other guy said

[Danny_dan92]

You can’t