I've heard this argument from both sides over and over of how spouses don't feel appreciated for their efforts. Most couples both work nowadays but there is still a ranking system factoring time, wage, title, responsibility, etc. So for simplicity, in a home of 1 working and 1 staying home... what are the basic expectations required (cleaning, wage, cooking, sex, kids if any, decompression time/hobbies, chores, time spent together/dates)? Or anything y'all can think of... I DONT WANT TO READ BASHING!!! I WANT REAL EXPECTATIONS. WHAT DOES HIS OR HER CONTRIBUTION EQUAL OUT TO?
Well, my wife works as a clinical psychologist and I stay at home. We have one kid and a second on the way, so I make sure they're fed, clean, played with, taken to school etc. I clean the place, make sure she's got something nice to eat when she gets home, and then we watch tv together or we all play with the kids because she doesn't get as much time as she'd like with them.
It always depends on the couple, but for us, it's a changing dynamic. We want to make life as easy as we can for each knowing what we need to live comfortably, and both of us try to do that every day.
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Well, just that I can come home to a clean house, and a sexy loving woman after a hard day's work.. And that any bills or house repairs that need to be taken care of is in her good hands. If we have children, that she'll keep them safe, sound, educated, and happy little bundles of joy.. And I expect her to enjoy her time also.. I'm pretty easy to please.
I was a kept women for a good 4yrs I didn't have to work as he brought home enough money to support the house.
My duties were :
1. Doing the weekly shop and getting any bits n pieces through the week.
2. All the cleaning, house work and garden jobs.
3. Do the animals.
4. Cook dinner every night.
5. Making sure all the bills were paid on time.
6. Make his work lunch for the following day.
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Taking care of the house, the kids, managing family social functions. The biggest thing for me is that the woman brings me peace in life. I don’t think women always realize this, but a woman who brings me (and I would assume this is true of men in general) a feeling of peace is so valuable and rare to me, that the simple fact she makes my life better is enough to justify giving her whatever she wants/needs. I’m serious when I say that. Make my life more enjoyable, and I will dote on you constantly.
I work in 12 hour shifts and I run a business also so I wouldn't mind a meal in the evening during the week, I'd cook over the weekend when available. Definitely her taking care of kids as a biggest priority due my work. I'm not really into old fashioned woman must cook, clean and bend over style of life so I'd prefer a working intelligent and successful wife over a housewife. Of course, sex would still be a thing with lots of exploring and new ideas to compensate for the time spent apart.
The only thing I'd expect is the house to be clean, or at least no worse than when I left. If any bills, repairs or telephone calls need to be made that don't require me then she could do that. In a loving relationship, sex is part of it but she may have had a bad day, so would understand if she wasn't in the mood.
I'd appreciate if she cooked but not expect it.
I'll only marry a girl who adores becoming a housewife...
What would i expect from her other than doing her role as a woman and as a housewife?
Depends are we sharing a house in this scenario?
I want her to sex and do housework take care of kids and more
What ever they decide on
Do they live together?
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