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Yes it’s none of your business. Besides you don’t know what their situation is. I could see if she was like a good friend, that may make a difference. I’d want my bro to tell me if something was going on. But it sounds as though you don’t know them that well. Ot could end up backfiring on you.
Tough call.
On one hand you don't want to see her get hurt, maybe there is an arrangement that you aren't aware of, or she already knows and is putting up with it.
I don't know how I would handle it.
I walked in on my exwife and the landlord.
I suspected something and I was right.
Not sure how I would have reacted to someone telling me.
You ever see the show House?
You can either come clean for your own conscience and destroy his pregant wifes happyness.
Or you can keep your mouth shut and let the wife be ignorant but blissfull, at the cost of your own conscience.
You could also just let her know without directly telling her. This lets her have the benefit of the doubt and you get to clear your conscience.
I guessing he doesn't want you getting caught up in any potential drama. If I was close friends with my neighbor and k ew her very well, I would have a hard time keeping that from her. Mainly cause if she when she does find out and finds out you knew all along, she'll question you and authenticity as a friend. Seen it before. But ugh since you don't know her like that, u guess it's beast to just leave it alone. Personally if I was the wife, I would want to know but that's just me.
Yeah it sucks. But you have to stupidly not say anything. "Mind your own business they say". I do not know it's a fine line. I hate cheaters. Id love to do something about it. Or maybe the people that say "mind your own business" are cheaters as well? Id definitely say something if it was a friend or family member.
It's none of your business. You don't know what he has agreed with his wife. Perhaps she knows about it. Not everyone has the traditional monogamous relationship nowadays. And in case she doesn't know about it, the question is if she would want to know it. Would it make things better? You risk ruining someone else's marriage. If you're not directly involved, better to remain silent. I agree with your boyfriend.
Stop by the neighbors house to ask for some random thing about 10 mins after the Mistress arrives (just long enough for them to get midstroke)... Would be a fun "shot across the bow"
Alternatively next time you see her ask her why she had the loaner car, if everything was okay with hers... Plant the seeds and let it grow
you never mess with your neighbors. this is the place where you live. if you piss them off, they can make your life hell. and you will have to see them almost daily
What if it were you beeing cheated by your boyfriend in this way, and your nosy neighborg tells you? How would you react?
On the other hand, if you and your boyfriend had an open relationship and someone mingled in your life, would you not be upset by her judgmental interfering?
I am in a similar situation. My neighbor's wife is cheating on him. Her husband is always busy in his work, his wife is taking advantage of this. She invites stranger men inside her home as soon her husband leaves home for work. I am sure she is fucking with other men. I have some video evidence. This neighbor woman insulted me many times. I will definitely take revenge and I will destroy her. I will show all the videos to her husband. Few people in the neighborhood know about this. I warned her once but she said she is an independent modern strong woman. She pretends to be an educated woman but she is an illiterate house wife. Her husband is a ugly man so she is attracted to handsome young boys. Her daughter (18) and son (20 ) are ugly. She is not satisfied with her life and sex life.
I saw my friends wife with a guy late at night at Dennys multiple times when my friend was at boot camp. he called me fdom boot camp and i minded my business. didn't say anything. the dude was her brother he was a late night EMT and the HQ was down the street from the Dennys
at least if I told her she'd have the information necessary for her to decide if she wants to stay with him or leave as opposed to thinking that everything is dandy. Perhaps she already knows but is choosing to act otherwise.
Ohh and I think your boyfriend is telling on himself.
I think you should not interfere with your neighbors life and mind your own business. You say you've been seeing him with another girl but have you seen them actually kissing? What if they actually have an open relationship? You're just speculating and making assumptions.
You need to tell her. Its the right thing to do. wouldn't you want her to tell you if it was the other way around?
Unless its someone that means a lot to you I wouldn't get mixed up with that hot mess of a relationship.
Its certainly NOT your place , do as your boyfriend says and mind your own business , its not your concern , dont put yourself in the boiling pot by choice , you are simply making trouble , its a private matter.
This is hard bc on the one hand if I was the wife I would want to know but on the other hand, drama may come your way.
You want to tell the wife, get photos of him actually cheating then deliver them to her doorstep while he’s out, wear a mask if you have to that way no one will know you did it and no one else gets involved except the guilty parties
I think you should mind your own business except they are your close friends
Just be sure if you do rat on him you are ready for any sort of counter attack he may launch against you. Maybe get a conceal carry permit just in case. You never know how some people might react
If you were being cheated on like that, probably you would want a fellow sister to tell you about it.
Also get evidence, take secret camera and picture of him if you can