My neighbor is cheating on his wife. I want to tell her but my boyfriend disagrees. What do you think? (Page 2)

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My neighbor just moved out with his wife and kids to another house but still comes to this other house as he claims he wants to use it for business. But now I see him constantly with another girl and now that his family is at another house I know he is cheating easily. It's not fair on his current pregnant wife. I saw him and the other girl today again in his car. I want to call his wife but my boyfriend is forbidding me, telling me it is none of my business and I don't have evidence and I should stop being nosy.  What do you think about his opinion? Is he right? He said if he finds out I told, he will be very angry with me.

shanshu · Answer

Best not to interfere, you will prob do more harm than good and you will prob get trouble on your door step

Alex8736 · Answer

Don't get involved cuz you don't want to cause any bad blood in the future but just focus on yourself and your SO

Clyde_123 · Answer

Mind your own business. You dont really know whats the relationship between your neighbor and his friend. Better to stay away from it.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

I would stay out of it. Their drama will become yours.

Anonymous · Answer

Unless you have SOLID PROOF, and you actually know the wife, you would just be ruining the relationship and he may be innocent. Your boyfriend is smart. Why would you get involved in other’s business?

motownplayer2000 · Answer

Stay out they business. She will get caught eventually. And all hell will break. Unless you know she has an STD and he doesn’t know, or something serious, let it play out

Vegasrunner · Answer

Tell your boyfriend on behalf of all real men everywhere TY. Never understand why women think it's their responsibility to involve themselves in other people's relationships. Take that back I know why.

Anonymous · Answer

Who cares. It's none of your damn business. NEVER do something out of hate and you're not doing it for her you want to do it because you hate him and his cheating.

slatyb · Answer

Don't do it. She may already know and be quietly tolerating it.

freewife · Answer

Stay well clear, you don't know what's really happening and the consequences for you could be really serious.

es20490446e · Answer

It would be good to tell if you knew for sure what's going on. But most likely you don't.

JPresidente · Answer

Best advice is to find away to give a hint or pass along information to him in a subtle way without revealing it came from you.

Staximus · Answer

Before you open your mouth, you might want to make sure that woman has the means, motivation, and can afford to support those kids by herself

noohair · Answer

Stay out of other peoples personal business. Who elected you to the morality police? What would happen if you opened your mouth and someone gets killed?

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Secretly slip her a note to tell her but make it so she has no idea who sent it to her.

jasco · Answer

Mind yo business before someone gets upset with you or worse.

Anonymous · Answer

Your husband's right. It's none of your business. No need to bring on Unnecessary Problems.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Tell her only if you have proof, if you don't have proof, don't assume thats whats going on.

Beerluvr · Answer

Mind your business unless you are close friends

Jenny-Marie · Answer

Ask yourself one question. Would you want to be told in a similar situation? Do what feels right to you.

Hellraiser1984 · Answer

Leave anonymous notes telling her. Then watch the fun as people start fighting.

Mangospacho · Answer

Unless you’re close friends or are in regular contact with the wife, I would stay out of it.

Anonymous · Answer

Here's the thing. If you were cheated on, would you like to be told by a neighbor? I know I want to know.

lazermazer · Answer

Have you seen this movie called The Voyeurs?

maximumpower · Answer

You hit it on the head - it's NONE of your business. Stay out of it!!!

Lincoln33 · Answer

Yeah your boyfriend is rightzis noon of your business

Dirtylittlebaby · Answer

I hate my ex for cheating on me I think u should put youraelf on her position and think if u would like to not know sth like that

Celticwolf78 · Answer

Take pictures and videos of them and send it to her without saying a word

Anonymous · Answer

Why get into someone else's business? Just butt out!

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Your boyfriend is wrong. And that's a red flag. Men who support other cheaters sometimes are cheaters themselves.

Anonymous · Answer

Slip a note under the door anonymous, or make a coincidence happen so he gets caught

Zolly99999 · Answer

I find it's best not to get involved

Kelly6 · Answer

i would agree with your husband too

Anonymous · Answer

Keep your nose out of other peoples business

mobiusforniner · Answer

Mind your own damn business.

hihihiok · Answer

Run. It's a big red flag.

shesrad · Answer

don't get involved, do yourself the favor.

exitseven · Answer

Mind your own business.

Pink2000 · Answer

You should tell her.

spartan55 · Answer

Listen to your boyfriend dummy.

20yearsolder · Answer

Keep your nose out of other people's business.

Agape93 · Answer

Tell her

Zygum · Answer

It is not your problem, let them enjoy, as woman is pregnant, so man has to satisfy him

BruceJender · Answer

Your boyfriend is right.

Anonymous · Answer

Tell her anonymously.

joeldalton · Answer

Yup. None of your business.

Light909090 · Answer

Let the man be boys will be boys

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, stay out of it.

red324 · Answer

She'll figure it out eventually.

roy_ricky09 · Answer

Never get involved in other's problems

Anonymous · Answer

Not your business at all

In_Trance · Answer

Not your place to interject

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Leave it the fuck alone.

msc545 · Answer

Your boyfriend is right. Not your business.

888theGreat · Answer

use anon letter and tell her

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Your boyfriend is right you should stay out of it

Ryfyle · Answer

Kill your neighbor.

Jouth · Answer

let her know, it's the right thing to do

eagle1951 · Answer

stay out of it

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