My boyfriend said he's not attracted to me so I broke up with him?

[Anonymous]

Did I do the right thing?

[Cynicaldreamer]

You did the right thing: good for you!!!

The moment he told you he's no longer attracted to you or wants to be with you, you move on. And, you may not feel like this now, but be glad he told you this now, instead of staying in a relationship with you only to cheat or hurt you later like some people do.

It hurts, but you really did the right thing: don't stay where you're not wanted or appreciated.

[Asker]

It was tough because he didn't want to break up... weird, right? He said he still likes sex with me but just doesn't find me physically attractive (and I haven't changed anything physically since we met). This conversation came up after I asked him why we didn't have sex for 2 weeks. Well I guess I got my answer...

[Cynicaldreamer]

"He said he still likes sex with me but just doesn't find me physically attractive (and I haven't changed anything physically since we met)."
NO. So basically he's just using you for sex then. In other words, if another girl he was attracted to came along and offered him sex, he'd go for it.

Yeah, you definitely did the right thing! Don't stay with someone just to be in a relationship... or because he wants you for sex. If a guy says he's not attracted to you, act accordingly. I really am proud of you :) Most people would try to stick around and "hope things get better" or because you're afraid of being alone

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Yeah, I think so. Even if he was just saying it because, he's gotta face the consequences of that.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Yeah I'd say you did. You really want to be stuck with a guy that pity fucks you and probably isn't enjoying it?

[Googlemyahoo]

I once told a girlfriend who was putting on weight she wasn’t as athletic as she used to be 🫤

[Asker]

You are a keeper! <3

[Asker]

Oh I read "was" hahaha... well of course there are nice ways to say it. But were you not attracted to her anymore because she put on weight?
I didn't change physically at all since we met, he said it was like that from the start...

[Googlemyahoo]

I was still attracted to her but she used to compete in this sport but gave up and started gaining weight we used to work out together she stopped while I still went. So I tried to say it the nicest way possible? Still resulted in tears and you think I’m fat.

[CloudMassacre]

I wouldn’t want to be with someone who doesn’t find me attractive

[Stevefiveo]

Definitely. It is telling you he wants to break up.

[mandyfire98]

Absolutely.