Am I in love? some say no I feel I surely am.. but want opinions thank you?

[Anonymous]

I love everything about him. Always thinking about him. I care deeply for him. want the very best for him. I want to marry him, be with only him for life. i know id die for him literally i would. the thought of not being with him for life as his wife, hurts beyond belief. if someone else is better for him then i want them for him, i want whos best for him, its just i hope an pray its me. if offered literally the whole world or him, id take him in a heartbeat. literally take him over the whole world. i want him to not miss out on my love, want to be there for him in his life, through whatever life may be for him. i want all of him, his ups downs his moods everything, i want it all. i would do anything to protect him, do anything for him. to have his love to me, would be the greatest blessing ever. i just adore him. i know this seems clear but, some think im not, but.. i feel i am.. but am i in love?

[Anonymous]

Honestly up until August i would of believed that crock of shit but since August my mind really gained a higher level of intelligence and enlightenment through personal experience. Basically what i learned back in August is if a person wants something bad enough theyll do it and if not they won't make the effort to do anything. Also another lesson i learned a very long time ago is people want what they can't have.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

If it’s been like that for four months, You’re in love. If less, possibly an infatuation (crush) is going on, but as You mentioned, You love EVERYTHING (although it could be that it is just an illusion) about him, it could be more than just a crush. If his personality matches Yours, go ahead and ask him out!

[boggboss]

Nobody can answer that question about your feelings only u can

[Anonymous]

Yes, it does sound like you are in love. But how does he feel?

[LazerBean]

Thats called infatuation.

[Asker]

no... clearly its beyond a crush

[LazerBean]

An infatuation in a crusher not the same thing. An infatuation is an illogical and unhealthy obsession, which is exactly what that sounds like.

[Asker]

im not obsessed.. i even stated if someone else is better for him that i want him to have them... and not myself... hows it illogical to feel all i stated?

[LazerBean]

Because he doesn't feel the same way about you. And yes, that is a statement. I don't have to ask you to know, I can tell by the desperation in your writing that you already know you have no chance with him, which is makes it makes it an illogical obsession.

[Asker]

I don't know how he feels about me.. I don't know if there's a chance... im not desparate whatsoever... you don't know what you're talking about. not obsessed not desparate at all.

[LazerBean]

Clearly.