How do you tell a guy that you want more?

[Parissy]

How to tell a guy that you want more like you don't like him but started loving him?

[caring__1]

Just show interest and comment on what he says and does. Show him you want to see things through his eyes by showing curiosity as to the meaning behind what he says or does. I'm not saying to interrogate him. Ask questions like "in what way?" "what are some examples?" "how might that impact the results?" "what other options were you considering, and how did you settle on this option?" Guys appreciate when you show interest in them rather than monopolize the conversation and make it all about you.

Share the specifics of what you see in him and how that differs from the general public. Let him know how those things impact you. Make sure you know him, and not just see what you want to see. Here are some questions you can ask to get get a deeper understanding of how he sees relationships.

When you were young (8-10 years old) and saw people in relationships, what did you believe were the reasons they chose to be in those relationships?

After you had relationship experiences of your own, how did that picture change?

What did you discover about yourself and potential partners as a result of your relationship experiences?

What did you learn from your relationship experiences?

What changes did you make in yourself as a result of that acquired knowledge?

What would be your reason for wanting to be in a relationship? In other words, what can you get from being in a relationship that you can't get by not being in a relationship?

What do you expect of a partner in a relationship?

What can a partner expect of you in a relationship?

Relationship-wise, how do you see your life 20 years from now?

[zeitgeist057]

There's a pretty simple rule in life: Give what you want to get.

If you want more, give more. But pay attention and if you aren't receiving in kind, then it's one sided and you should respect yourself and stop. Put your energy in life where it is appreciated.

I hope it is appreciated and reciprocated, and it's really that simple. You don't even really have to say anything if you don't want to; actions speak louder than words.

[StonerChick427]

What are you meaning? By you don’t like him….. But you started loving him? What made you start loving him if you don’t like him, if you don’t mind me asking
Could you explain a little more I’m kinda confused 😕

[DollAlone]

Be honest. Straight up and dont play games. Dont expect him to guess or read your mind. He may feel the same way and you will never know until you say something

[Guy13]

Straightforwardly so there is no sense of having to Guess. Lessen the Risk and increase the odds by being straightforward tomorrow or Saturday though…. FACE-FACE…

[DaySpring]

First figure out why you want to tell him such a thing.
What is your intent?
And what does more even mean? Be more concrete.
Ask yourself these questions. Be sure to exactly what you want before you do anything.
What and how exactly do you want the relationship to be like? Write it down.
Because it's not enough for his intent to be the same he has to also have the same vision.

Maybe he will be open to something more too but what is that something more?
An abstract, serious relationship is not enough.
Make it concrete

[Kinkyhubby]

Sit down over dinner, either make dinner or go to a restaurant, and talk to him. Ask him where do you see us heading? Where do you see in in 3 yr , 5 years? Sometime you have to have a conversation and it could be difficult. I know my wife n i had these talks while dating.

[sage2021]

I have had a guy say to me "I think I'm in love with you". Sounds pretty safe, don't you think? He should get a he hint from saying that.

[katestar]

Wow. That's the best line I have ever heard

[melanieeeB]

"Hey I'm catching feelings for you and can see us being more" is a good conversation starter

[AdithyaR]

Oh simple, there's a kpop song called More&More, play that for him. Or the Brittney song Gimme More.

Or... You know? Just tell him?

[katestar]

By telling him that you want more than just a friend. But a good lover?

[FilmGuy93]

You really just have to find the gumption to come out and say it.

[Hardworkingguy]

Well talk to him if he likes you as much he'll be happy to hear that. If he doesn't then you don't waste your time with him

[Static_In_The_Attic]

It’s simple, Don’t Tell Him, Show Him.