Well, I personally agree with her. But I understand that you want to see her more, and I believe that your feelings are valid. I'm sure that these circumstances are hard on you, and I am sorry for that.
I think it is totally fine. Everybody feels different about this, but it's never a good a idea to not have any days separate from each other. I understand if you'd prefer 3-4 times a week, but twice a week should be more than accepable.
I have to agree with your girlfriend. Take advantage of the time you guys spend together, but focus on your on purpose in life. She's going to end up leaving you if you don't.
Either you’re needy and obsessive, or your girlfriend isn’t spending enough adequate time with you. If it’s the latter, that’s a red flag. The single variable that tells us how much we like someone is how often we spend time with them.
Break up with her my girlfriend is in Florida rn and we are taking a break I really miss her but I keep having sex with other women in the meantime it’s nice but I really liked having sex with her the most plus she is way prettier
Doesn't matter how many times you meet, there are people in long distance who don't get to meet for months, if you are making time for the relationship, I guess it's okay. She must be busy with lot other things
Talk to her, explain to her your feelings and how you just want to spend more time with her. Nothing crazy like 24/7 but you enjoy being with her and spending time with her.
You need to come up with more ways to meet, at least do surprise her and meet up on some unexpected days and see how she will react. Or by pushing in more days
Talk to her about your concerns and see if there's something that can be changed about that
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I'd almost say cheat on her but it's obvious she isn't satisfying you in the relationship. Consider getting more girls to find one, who is more available to you.
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Get a life outside your parasitical clingy relationship or she will eventually dump you.
find one in your location so you can walk to see them every night
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I can only handle once a week. I’m busy mom and work lots. I don’t like random or different folks when I eventually have time, it’s better with the same person.
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Well, I personally agree with her.
But I understand that you want to see her more, and I believe that your feelings are valid. I'm sure that these circumstances are hard on you, and I am sorry for that.
I think it is totally fine. Everybody feels different about this, but it's never a good a idea to not have any days separate from each other. I understand if you'd prefer 3-4 times a week, but twice a week should be more than accepable.
I have to agree with your girlfriend. Take advantage of the time you guys spend together, but focus on your on purpose in life. She's going to end up leaving you if you don't.
Either you’re needy and obsessive, or your girlfriend isn’t spending enough adequate time with you. If it’s the latter, that’s a red flag. The single variable that tells us how much we like someone is how often we spend time with them.
Break up with her my girlfriend is in Florida rn and we are taking a break I really miss her but I keep having sex with other women in the meantime it’s nice but I really liked having sex with her the most plus she is way prettier
Doesn't matter how many times you meet, there are people in long distance who don't get to meet for months, if you are making time for the relationship, I guess it's okay. She must be busy with lot other things
Once or twice is actually pretty good as long as you spend quality time together but different people have different needs.
Just let her know you'd like to see her more often.
Talk to her, explain to her your feelings and how you just want to spend more time with her. Nothing crazy like 24/7 but you enjoy being with her and spending time with her.
Ditch her, probably has guys the other days of the week,
Twice per week is less that I'd like personally.
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Is there any way you can go to her instead?
Twice is pretty alright.
Watch out, if a girl finds out a guy is overly attached she will loose attraction.
You need to come up with more ways to meet, at least do surprise her and meet up on some unexpected days and see how she will react. Or by pushing in more days
Talk to her about your concerns and see if there's something that can be changed about that
I'd almost say cheat on her but it's obvious she isn't satisfying you in the relationship. Consider getting more girls to find one, who is more available to you.
Get a life outside your parasitical clingy relationship or she will eventually dump you.
find one in your location so you can walk to see them every night
I can only handle once a week. I’m busy mom and work lots. I don’t like random or different folks when I eventually have time, it’s better with the same person.
Maybe you can work out a schedule to see each other more often. Do it on a weekly basis at a time