One thing I’ve struggled in the past two relationships I’ve been in is that both men have had really skinny exes, I’m talking extremely underweight. With the guy I’m with now his exes were severely underweight and my body type is fit, I’m size small, but I’m definitely not underweight. Even though he says he loves how I am now since I look fit and healthy instead, I can’t help but think he’d rather me be thinner like his exes since he dated them. When I bring it up he says he loves how I look and that they were sickly looking but I still can’t get over that feeling. What should I do? Does he actually mean it?