Did you ever blow a relationship and wish you could start over?

[DubiousIntentions]

Who's been there and done that?

[exitseven]

Yes, I dated somebody and I quickly fell in love with her. I was going through a really bad period in my life and I probably was not very good company. I was mired in the limitations of my life. She dumped me after 4 or 5 months. I was hurt and angry but after a while I figured it was most ly my fault for being such a downer.

[DubiousIntentions]

Was probably just bad timing. Unfortunately, we can't pick and choose those times so we always seem to be out of synch.

[Alex8736]

everything happens for a reason and the relationship I blew was only 2 months after a toxic relationship and when i finally realized she was a catch when my mind cleared it was too late. on the other hand if I didn't blow it i would be a widow because 18 months later she died in a car crash. the moral if that stiry is damned if I do and damned if i don't. HAPPY Tuesday EVERYONE

[DubiousIntentions]

Perhaps not. There are probably a trillion timelines that it could have gone down. Everything that occurs changes it. Had you stayed together, or even if she went to a different place that day she might not have died. But, we do not control our fate so who knows? Also, you would be a widower, not a widow. :)

[Alex8736]

it was actually on her way home from her job and a 18 wheeler lost control on the highway but either or i still drop off flowers on her grave every year and keep in touch with her widowed husband and her surviving son

[DubiousIntentions]

That is kind of you. I hope it is appreciated.

[CA4444]

Blew it yeah definitely, but it was kind of how I was anyway (and also some issues that i could have fixed before but that’s life you learn when you learn) I wouldn’t want to start over

[nolabels]

Nah.

I'll admit to not always being at my best, but there aren't any relationships that I'd want to return to.

[DubiousIntentions]

Well that can be seen as good. You learned from your mistakes.

[nolabels]

That's how I choose to look at things.
I said that I've not always been at my best.
I can't say that I've blown any relationships.
I've never been the dumpee.
There's always something to learn whether one is the dumper or dumpee.

[ArrowheadSW]

Actually, no. I've made mistakes in relationships, but nothing that ended one because "I blew it". They ended for good reasons perhaps?

I can't think of a former relationship that I wish I could start over. Good question though! Made me think for a minute... LOL

[MrHopper]

At the time yes, but as the years go by and you move on and become happy elsewhere in life you think of it as a blessing as you wouldn't be where you are now.

I guess it just depends on how happy you are now

[Sparkie460]

I'm sure everyone has been there. I remember being in that situation once. I was so stupid and I didn't see the signals she was sending me

[DubiousIntentions]

Happens to the best of us I guess.

[Sparkie460]

Yes I guess so. Like someone else said, everything happens for a reason. Maybe there is someone better out there for you

[DubiousIntentions]

I like to believe that. If something closes a door to you it might be they are opening several sliding patio doors to you in it's place.

[NathanDavis]

yes... but no

they seem happy with their choices, so I would not want to change that

as long as they're happy and in peace

[mobiusforniner]

Yes. Told one of my best friends of many years that i fell in love with her.

Once you say those three words, you cannot just CTRL+Z it

[DubiousIntentions]

I guess it depends on what her response was to your confession.

[mobiusforniner]

I knew she had feelings for me too. Under normal circumstances tbis would be awesome, right? Problem was we were both at a point where being together was impossible. I knew the only best option was to say goodbye. So at least she knew when I said "I love you"... i meant it.

[Sevenpointfive]

i've met the right girl at the wrong time so many times

[DubiousIntentions]

One might think you would get it right once in a while.

[Sevenpointfive]

it's not you it's definitely me. i doom myself

[LemiaOfThunder]

My pervious relationship I bashed heads with her older sister.

[DubiousIntentions]

Wait, previous or perviness?

[LemiaOfThunder]

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[HugeDikEng]

I got a blowjob from a relationship, and wish I could go back to get another.

[SnowedIn]

Several times.

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

How did you blow your relationship?