Do rushed relationships last? Say you jumped into a relationship with someone you have only known for 2 months, what are the odds of it lasting?

[Anonymous]

[t_time]

I dated my boyfriend for 2months before I told him he should move in.. we are still going strong it's almost been 2 years and we bought a house together

[Asker]

May I ask how long you knew each other before dating?

[t_time]

2 months we knew each other for

[moonpie89]

I've been there. Nope, it usually ends soon.

[Asker]

Why do people think its a good idea in the first place tho?

[moonpie89]

They probably get caught up in their feelings. Most times people call it a relationship when it's literally the beginning stages of getting to know someone.

[HighValue]

What does known for two months mean?

In my opinion, after the third date they are either in an exclusive relationship, or just end it and move on.

[Asker]

Known as in met and have been talking or are aware of each other but not dating

[Anonymous]

I'm leery of ANY woman that moves to fast.

[Asker]

May I ask why so?

[Opinion Owner]

Would you want to marry a guy who proposed to you after a week? Of course not (granted this is an etreme example but it highlights my point). I'm 40+ not 20+. Odds are the woman I meet is past the child bearing stage. So what's the rush? If she's as good of a women as I am a man and we get along, are compatible, etc. Then neither of us should be going anywhere. A woman that moves too fast is only showing me she's chasing a "feeling high". Most women that do so exercise very poor judgement which is generally the reason for bad relationship record. In short, she's not in love with me. She's in love with the perception she's created of me. Odds are she doesn't really even know me. It's the male equivalent of a guy that tells you how right for eachother you are, how you're the woman he's been waiting his entire life for. But he doesn't even remember a simple detail like your last name.🤣

[aaron210419]

Actually, a lot of long lasting relationships begin this way.

[Danny718718]

Disaster for failure. It takes a lot longer to know the person even at that could be fake

[WishIwasoldagain]

It can last but if you want to dig deeper and search from the red flags see how long their previous relationships have lasted and go off that

[Whatisthatname]

I think it's a low chance of it working out, unless there's specific circumstances.

[Anonymous]

Sometimes it works.