I catfished my cheating boyfriend and we are suppose to meet at a hotel, how to handle this?

[Anonymous]

We have been together 8 years in a situation-ship. I knew something was going on, intuition, so I created a fake profile on cheating site. He bit, hook line and sinker. The thing is, a month ago I had a straight up convo with him about seeing and chatting with other people. I told him, it is fine if you are chatting or even meeting up I just want the truth as I have been honest with him. and if that is the case I need to know so I can take a step back from this situationship. I fell in love with him.. I even told him things will not change between us if he is honest but if he lie's its a different ballgame. He denied anything, though he has been chatting with the catfish for 2 months.

He has told the catfish (me) that he wants to meet, in another town, and I am playing along, what do I do when I show up at the hotel, not the girl he thinks he's meeting? His reaction? ever heard of the Pina Colada song... LOL

I know I should leave his cheatin arse, but he's almost an addiction... how would you play it and GUYS what would you do if this guy was you... help, stuck in my head!!

[D_Bone_Steak]

Tell him to get a room, the most expensive room, and order a shit ton of food. That you want to show up wearing nothing under your overcoat.

Then just not show up. Watch movies and enjoy a bottle of wine. Later you can catch him in a lie about what he was doing and where he was.

The real issue is this is actually the kind of guy you want. You have all the evidence already and you're just going to be all his. How about you... do you have backburner guys or go out to places where thirsty guys go, and is why your guy is acting like this to begin with? ... of course not right, females never do anything that makes a guy feel like he has to cheat. It's never going to be serious and you allow it.

[Ghostykill3r]

If he has any items at your place I'd bring them to the hotel and give them to him. Also I wouldn't recommend going alone just in case he gets angry and/or violent, or just in case he tries to play some bullshit to convince you to stay with him. If he had the opportunity to tell you he wanted to or was seeing other people without too many hurt feelings and didn't take it, I wouldn't talk to him again.

[Asker]

Good point!! Gave him ample time to spill it... garbage bags on grocery list!! Thxs

[Anonymous]

I don't know what the problem is. Sounds like you're perfect for eachother. He cheats on you, you deceive him.

[Anonymous]

“Situation ship” doesn’t sound like a relationship, marriage or anything serious.