What do women want from a romantic partner in 2023 and beyond?

[coachTanthony]

[Rosexøxø]

I don't know about everyone else.

This is not even really for me. Just basic listing.

*PROPER* [Recognition] (to give it)

Understanding (to have that)

Confidence (for them to have that)

Respect (to give that)

*Feel* an astronomical amount of Curiosity, towards me.

No one tell me “oh you better give it too.”

Its my list ☝️ and if I expect it I require I offer it. That’s the whole meaning of a personal value 😌

These aren’t demands but “hopeful expectations”/ prospects I shall keep an open eye for.

[Anonymous]

1. Handsome ️️

2. 6ft plus tall ️️

3. Big dick ️️

4. Athletic/muscular ️️

5. Makes good money ️️

6. Well educated ️️

7. Charming ️️

8. Sense of humour ️️

9. British accent ️️

10. Masculine check ️️

11. Stylish ️️

12. High Status️

13. Good with kids

[TaureanBull81]

Men will avoid you with this kind of unrealistic checklist and expectations.
It's what you can bring to the table for him. Not the other way round.
You seem very self-entitled.

[coachTanthony]

It's funny Ill give you that

[Opinion Owner]

@TaureanBull81 men don't avoid me. You got to have standards and to know your worth. I am entitled to a man that fits this bill.

[TaureanBull81]

Well these type of men you are searching for will have plenty of options and won't commit to you.

Be prepared to be pumped, dumped and ran through. When you hit 30, you'll be scratching your head wondering why none of them have committed to you.

[TaureanBull81]

It is funny I agree but I'm trying to give the girl some life lessons 😂

[John-E_63]

what size dick would please you?

[TruthBringer]

And as soon as that unicorn of a man crosses your path you're going to REEEE when he finds flaws in you that withholds him from committing to you. For example: Your ass or tits aren't as big as he would like. So while you demand a man to have things he cannot control (like height or dick size), don't get mad when these men reject you for things that are also beyond your control.

But knowing women nowadays, you'll get mad when a man rejects you with things you CAN control such as weight. So better be on that treadmill and look like an IG model, love.

[Opinion Owner]

@TruthBringer When he's at my gate, with a big fat eight you wanna see the smile on my face
If he's extra large well I'm in charge
I can work this thing on top
And if he's XXL, well what the hell
Every penny don't fit the slot

[TruthBringer]

Pff 🤣🤣

[Guy13]

Women want to "know your soul" so that we can share in a joined completeness. "Okay but why don't we start small with feeding and womanly maintenance of the male body... With an eased mind the limits are endless and perhaps we can telepathically share both the unsaid an felt. Doesn't that sound like a great plan for closeness."

[John-E_63]

I'm ok with giving a woman that, after all, her being your soul mate, someone who loves you better than anyone, someone who bares your children, someone you have sex with, someone you share your deepest secrets with, your worries, your dreams and aspirations with, she is your everything. This person completes you as a human being.

[Guy13]

@John-E_63 I can’t argue with that but all that 🦇.💩. Cra Cra Emotional dumping is enough to kill a man. But yeah…

[John-E_63]

Actually, I never was married, and I really don't like all that emotional love, love crap either, which IS why I remain single. I am a good-looking guy, so I can fuck them and leave them and not have a care in the world. I just said all that stuff hoping it would attract a woman, but it didn't.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I think they want it all... basically, one side of the table, brings the table, and anything put on the table comes from them. They want to offer 'just being there' and can't hold up one side of a conversation. Sounds kind of harsh, but that is just my perspective.

[OlderAndWiser]

Adoration, security, status, and cute healthy babies.

[Minahh]

not the babies 🥴

[OlderAndWiser]

@Minahh Most women - not all women - eventually want the babies.

[Minahh]

yeah i mean good for them i guess

[Anonymous]

I want someone who is honest, loyal, adventurous, who is willing to work with me/we act as a unit, and is smart. I’m a virgin and I’m pretty nervous around guys, so the guy I am looking for, I am putting a lot of trust in him. Mentally, emotionally, physically. Basically I have to trust him with my life lol

[Noah-z]

❤️❤️❤️

[bamesjond0069]

The same things they always wanted since the dawn of time. The only difference is they say they don't want those things now and it tricks a lot of men.

[coachTanthony]

Your McDonalds salary?

[bamesjond0069]

All the girls want that burger money. 🤣

[MsMJprodigy]

Someone who’s cares about me, shows me they love me with their words and actions, supportive of us as a couple and individuals.
Pluses for if they are responsible, trustworthy, and can communicate things when there are problems that arise.

[Anonymous]

My current boyfriend (tho currently in a tough situation rn) has almost everything I've always wanted in a guy, except one. He isn't very patient.. he has a short temper and has issues with anger. So even though he has most of what i want in a partner, he doesn't have what i NEED.


We’re taking a break right now but we’re technically still together. He knows my issues with him and says he would work on it if i give it a chance.

[Opinion Owner]

I guess thats my answer. A guy who has patient. My boyfriend has a short temper almost everywhere and with anyone.

[Opinion Owner]

What i do want (that he does have), is being loyal, caring, considerate, empathetic, honest, fearless, adventurous, and more. I could go on, but yeah. Nothing really is perfect.

[melanieeeB]

I personally want respect, love, laughters, care and a partner to go through life with and who wants me in his life for me

[NathanDavis]

I do like the clarification... will those things will be good by 2024? or just for 2023... lol

[lightbulb27]

Emotional support, engaged partner in life, enjoyment which means resources to enjoy life, having all their needs met.

[TacosRAwesome]

Love, respect, sex, them to propose and carry the groceries home. Also them to have a nice family because I'm done with sharing mine.

[Anonymous]

Men with humor. Good chemistry. Trustworthy. Commitment.

I don’t want to be with anyone who is not humorous because it makes me feel like shit when they don’t get my joke that i gotta explain it to them 😭

[mobiusforniner]

Nothing different since the dawn of time, really. And nothing different than what a man also seeks from a woman... Someone who makes them feel happy, valued, and loved.

[Minahh]

Yaas exactly really that simple lol

[Minahh]

What they always wanted love I guess 🤷‍♀️ and oh hoes money

[Kryssie53]

A loyal, romantic, gentle, and a bad spoiled guy
Who's gonna spoile Me

[TheSimFans]

I want a partner to be respectful, honest, trustworthy, good communication and common interest.

[Subarugirl]

At the very least, honesty, integrity, empathy, loyalty, chemistry, and reliability.

[coachTanthony]

reliability like a 2022 honda?

[Subarugirl]

Reliability like the quality of being trustworthy or of performing consistently well.

[electromagnetic]

More forehead kisses.

[Dargil]

What they always wanted back to June Cleaver. Respect and nurturing.

[Valso]

They want the same as always:

https://www.youtube.com/embed/TifFTCaE5BU

[Anonymous]

Attention, kindness, communication and children.

[Nikki1989]

Respect, love and common sense.

[worldscolide]

All of the benefits, none of the responsibilities.

[Anonymous]

Likes a lot of good sex

[BJP21]

DM me we gonna have long talk.

[SaoirseS]

Same thing I wanted in 2022.

[Anonymous]

In general

Loyalty

Have a word of a man

Handsomeness

[Sasha0426]

I honestly want nothing.

[Anonymous]

Good at eating ass.

[msc545]

Money of course. Or things that cost a lot of money.

[coachTanthony]

Dude, they have their own money. The last 6 bosses I had in the corporate world in the last 20 years were women. Let go of this money thing lol

[msc545]

Not every woman is like your boss.

[msc545]

Also, I have no intention of letting go of the truth in this particular instance.

[coachTanthony]

Did you just remove my comment?

[msc545]

no...

[coachTanthony]

How about you vet the woman accordingly? Is that not an option? Or we just going to say all women are after your money?

[coachTanthony]

Let’s try this again and see if this is taken down

[msc545]

I don't think it is possible to vet a person to the degree necessary to feel safe in marriage or even in a long-term relationship. I'm a Psychologist specializing in psychodiagnostics, and if I cannot do it nobody really can. Women are just too capricious, and they come to you without context and history that might help to assess them accurately, in a culture that approves and encourages their perfidy.

[coachTanthony]

If you can't do it nobody can? Well I guess that settles it. lol

[msc545]

I don't think you understand. I spent years learning how to do this. Predictions about future behavior are still wrong at least half the time for anyone in my field. But you just go ahead and do your "vetting", and don't forget to pray as well - you will need that help.

[coachTanthony]

Been a dating coach for over 20 years. Thousands of successful clients who vetted accordingly and went on to have great relationships. No praying needed. What do you say to them? I guess they just got lucky.

[msc545]

Not exactly a random sample of men, was it?

[coachTanthony]

I think you are looking for some kind of 100% guarantee you won't get used or taken for whatever it is you have and if that is the case then you are right. Nothing is guaranteed in life.

[msc545]

I don't need 100% guarantee of anything, but I would like some assurances that I will be treated fairly if things wind up in court. In the US, as a man being accused by a woman, that is simply not possible. I would be presumed guilty immediately. No thank you.

[coachTanthony]

Was Johnny Depp treated fairly? I mean he won. You're grasping at the worst case scenario that is called fear of something that doesn't happen to a lot of men. If you see someone get killed by a car do you stop driving? No. I'm done with this. Appreciate the convo. All questions in this comment are rhetorical.

[msc545]

How much did it cost Jonny Depp to "win"? Both in money and grief, how much?

[coachTanthony]

Grief? He was smiling the entire trial and probably boning his attorney at the same time. He's a man he got through it.

[hissugarbunns]

Respect loyalty no secrets

[CubsterShura]

E d u c a t i o n.

[Jennz6]

Respect

[Anonymous]

Love and honesty

[Anonymous]

We want trash everything

[LemiaOfThunder]

Support and love

[cth96190]

Women want money.

[coachTanthony]

They have their own it's 2023