Why can some people so easily get into relationships? I'm 25 and I can't even find someone to ask me out. I've had one guy I've been exclusive with but never had a boyfriend. Why do some people seem to get into relationships so easily, even never being single ever, while others have a harder time?
Maybe you're giving off the wrong signals to guys? I wouldn't be able to answer what you might be doing "wrong" without knowing you.
As for your question: some people find it easier, I guess, because they actively seek people to be with. I have a friend who is a self-proclaimed serial monogamist, and she told me she feels "empty" and really uncomfortable without a partner. Like she has gone out with guys she's not that into because of this. When she ends a relationship, she goes out with the next guy who shows her interest. She's such a good catch and she goes out with the worst guys sometimes because she wants a boyfriend. Which is her choice, but I hope she finds someone she truly likes.
So maybe you just don't put yourself out there enough? If you could provide more details I might be able to suss out what's going on for you.
Parents/fosterpatents and upbringing usually. Some have scars or actual physical or physiological pain/conditions. Others just get bullied into feeling low worth (snd mostly by their iwn parents or foster/adoptive oarents who never told them they stole or adopted them). Good luck 🖖
Some people are better at free flowing conversations than others. I was pretty awkward and never found a girlfriend back then. Autism yo.
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