CAN HE REALLY LOVE YOU WHEN HE SAW YOU ONLY ONCE AND IT IS LONG DISTANCE?

[Anonymous]

So this guy inboxed me and said he saw me in 2021 at school but he wanted me to first finish since he was also in his last year and he texted on 16th Nov 2022 after 4 days of me breaking off for holodays and we started talking. I have never seen him but he is really nice. Texts good morning and good night. Tells me a little about his family and we started dating but I still wonder whether his feelings are genuine because he saw me only once and I have never seen him face to face. He is 20 and am 17

[Guy13]

No, this guy is not in love with you. Be careful because people like this are love bombers and usually very controlling by nature.

[SnowedIn]

He cannot really love you when he saw you once and it's long distance. There's nothing there on which to know or build love, I'm sorry to say.

[tonamimargaux]

No not at all. Initially they might have attraction but not love and attraction fades away with time

[Avicenna]

No, it’s lust not love

[Asker]

How is it list when we are in a long distance relationship

[Wise4myage]

No, love takes time to develop.

[Asker]

We have been talking for two months now and we are making three on 16th thos month

[Asker]

And he texted me last month that now je really loves me than before

[Wise4myage]

Yes but it’s long distance, you need to be together.

[Asker]

Meaning he can't really love me unless we're together?

[Wise4myage]

That’s my opinion.

[Asker]

Okay thanks

[In_Trance]

Lol no