I had a falling out with my friend because of the girl and they both blocked me on everything.
I found out today that the girl unblocked me on whatsapp, and doesn't have me blocked on any social media. She hasn't responded to the 2 times I've reached out on other platforms though.
She had me blocked before, so she's clearly made a point of unblocking me now that they've broken up. She hasn't been receptive to my other attempts to start a conversation, so I'm kind of confused about why she would unblock me, if she isn't apparently receptive to the communication.
I feel like I shouldn't reach out, but I'm kind of curious.
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Are you sure you’re 30, sucker? You definitely are not appetizing, Mr. Needy “oh thank you…thank you.. twice Desperate.
Get me?
They are laughing at you man. One contact to both: Ladies, all is well with you both?
Pretty sure that I'm 30, yeah. I'm not interested in scoring with her, just curious about what other people's takes on situation are. Attention-seeking makes sense to me, I just found the situation odd.
It's been twice over the course of several years, so it's not exactly like I've been beating her door down.
I decided to text, just to see what would happen; blocked. lol Extremely predictable, but still somewhat disappointing.
There is absolutely no reason to keep circling back to this woman. Doesn’t matter if it was twice over two years, it’s not an excuse to pop back up. You said to another comment you aren’t trying to score, then what’s the point? Move on.
And by saying what’s the point, I mean what is the purpose in opening the lines of communication if you aren’t after something. She just doesn’t want to be your friend dude.
As included in my question details; I'm not the one opening the line of communication; she is. It's a point of curiosity, that's all.
Unblocking you is not the green light to communicate, and you said yourself she is not receptive, so my opinion is you should stop.
My question wasn't about whether I should hit her up, it was about what reason she would have to unblock me at all.
Maybe she was looking at her block list one day and adjusted it because she never wanted to block you in the first place and did it because her ex did, and it’s as simple as that. Things like that could make a person feel guilty. But I doubt it’s her trying to open the lines of communication in that sort of way.
I wouldn't poke at a dead horse too long, man. If she wants to talk to you, she'll talk.
I thought I had included this, but those two times happened across 4-5 years. But yeah… I decided to message, just out of curiosity because she had unblocked me and then I immediately got reblocked. Predictable outcome. Unfortunate, but predictable.