Am I right to feel upset and jealous when I catch my boyfriend staring and checking out other females? (Page 2)

[ihateithere44]

i feel like this is a stupid thing to be upset about. there’s not a woman i know that’s in a relationship who doesn’t look at other men and/or fantasize about said hot man. men do the same thing. he’s in a relationship not blind. you should act the same way.

[abitcurious2022]

Yes you're going to feel upset and jealous but men are visual. They're going to look at other women. Just like you own a car, you're still going to look at other cars when they drive by. As long as he's not going to have sex with them you'll be fine.

[Singing_Hollow]

Firstly a real grown man won't want his woman to feel like this. Guys look, yes but to stare is simply disrespectful to you and your relationship. Especially to do it around you. Sounds like you deserve better.

[Wade12345]

I'm single and a virgin. I presently get my fix by watching bikini models and free topless porn. If I was in a relationship I wouldn't do that though. If I had a woman who was 8/10 or better, I probably wouldn't even notice other women anyway.

[DribbleGodCurt]

I say yes and you're boyfriend may not love you tbh, bc if he truly loves you he wouldn't be "checking out" any other females he'd be invested in you and you only

[Honey3157]

Yes! 1000% because it’s disrespectful. My husband stopped doing this because I felt so strong about it. He has the utmost respect for our union now. It connected us more.

[OfMiceandMen]

I agree with you, he shouldn't be checking everyone out, it kind of shows what his true character is.

If you're in a relationship you shouldn't be checking other people out.

[Adam1978]

Yes, aslong as he doesn't act towards these women or encourage any advances. Guys have eyes so they will always look. If you can't handle that date blind men.

[ilovedabi]

That is rude and him doing it in front of you is even worse, I understand men cheek women put but when yiu have a girlfriend or when your girlfriend is with you it's just disrespectful. In my opinion you should talk to him about this or break up with him if he does not stop.

[Anonymous]

It’s normal for most guys to do that but not make it obvious, it doesn’t really mean much because guys will always do this, just always visually attracted to women but not going to act on it , I can see why it would bother you but he is with you not them and isn’t going to do anything, it’s how guys are

[HighValue]

He is being disrespectful in my opinion to behave that way. His behavior is nearly as bad as women that post revealing pictures on social media for attention.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, you have every right to be upset/ mad with him. I feel bad that this is happening between you two. Many Blessings your way :-) :-p

[exitseven]

If he starts drooling it is a problem but if he is just checking them out it means he is human. Maybe playfully smack him in the head when you see him do it.

[abc3643]

You can feel upset and jealous all you want, but every straight male will do this until he dies.

And, guess what: Women do it too.

[rachel776]

no they are going to look whether you see them doing it or not

[rienna888]

He shouldn’t be doing that especially infront of you. I suggest u talk to him about how it makes you feel. Just tell him once don’t bring it up again and see what he does.

[Anonymous]

It's normal for him to look (he can try to hide it better) and it's normal to feel upset by it (but not to the point where you punish him for it).

[Reem12345reem]

a simple look is okay but staring and gazing is just rude , or at least he shouldn't make it obvious to u ,

[LiamJHayden]

Yes, it is disrespectful. Now, a straight man is going to notice attractive girls so don't get crazy over that, but if he's scoping them out you are right to be upset.

[Jdjfjcjj]

Maybe? Guess it depends if how many milliseconds it takes you to look away from attractive males