I’m one of them. I questioned my boyfriend about his past relationships and when i found out, i became completely obsessed with them and always ask him where he loves me more than he loved them and bother him with my endless questions. What should i do? I can’t stop myself.
You're gonna need to stop yourself. This is unhealthy.
You need to examine your own motivations here.
Doesn't everybody have a past?
Why should his past relationships be all that relevant to you now?
Does his having been close to somone else in the past, detract from how close he is to you now?
What is it you're seeking exactly by asking him these endless questions?
This is insecurity based. But it's just unhealthy. There is no reason for you to be focused on his past relationships... he wants to be in a relationship with you. His past isn't what he's thinking about. He's not comparing you to his exs. He is trying to have a relationship with YOU right now. You are gonna fuck it up by obsessing over this.
I don't know how exactly you stop. But you better figure out how to stop nonetheless. This is not something any boyfriend is gonna put up with for very long. You are in the wrong here. You need to figure out some way to change this. Or you're fucked.
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Everyone has a past. I don't go there. If someone I like was a former escort or something similar, I would not care. And you say you can't stop. Actually, your won't stop.
I'm not. You just need to let go. If you love him accept him for who he is and for what he did in the past. That way you'll just lose him. Love is about accepting
What’s there to be jealous about? Are you that scared to lose him? He should be worried about losing you! Lol
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