Girls, How can I get her to talk to me again?

[Brokenheart14]

I met this girl back in January and things were going great. We would stay up for hours flaking went on a date. We are basically in the same line of work so it was easy and nice to have some one who understood the hours. when I met her I was just upset about a few things going on and meeting her dug me out of that rut and I just overall enjoyed her company. I sorta feel like I lost her because I started asking her if things were okay or if I should back off when I noticed some push back. She called me a few times to speak about it but I feel as if she’s annoyed with me. I backed off and haven’t contacted her. I come from a cheating relationship so I just don’t feel I could be liked and I got all weird with this girl cause of it and probably had her thinking I didn’t trust her word. I apologized and asked for a restart with a friendship which she replied okay. did I totally ruin it or can time help me get on speaking terms with her?

[devilish-cutie]

she seems to see you only as a friend

[Brokenheart14]

Well now probably but when we started talking she liked me even when she called me to yell at me she said she liked me and she don’t understand what I wasn’t grasping. She has to focus on things going on in her life like family and she just got out of hospital so I probably pushed her away

[devilish-cutie]

I don't know, then you really fd something up, if you wait too long , we can cool off or if you hurt us a lot... from your story its not clear what you did

[Brokenheart14]

My insecurities from previous relationships had me fumble early with this girl and her helping me through a hard time when we met and her focusing on things in her life I felt like I was losing her when I wasn’t and annoyed her by asking her a few times and she called me up angry about it she apologized the next day but I told her I understood but I hope I didn’t make her resent me

[devilish-cutie]

if you like her than you should fight for her, put an effort, redeem ysf, you try and see, there are no guarantees but its all you can do, that or give up, so you choose

[Brokenheart14]

For now do you recommend just giving her space? I don’t want her to resent me and I feel like I was scrambling trying to make it better when in reality I was probably just annoying her

[devilish-cutie]

No, i said completely opposite of that and I don't know what you are doing but just tell her you are sorry and you like her and want to make it up to her if you did something wrong and what you can do to fix it between you 2

[Brokenheart14]

Well I did apologize and she said she was sorry for being mean about it but she was angry because we talked about it a few times. I asked her if we can restart and promised not to ask her stupid stuff anymore and she said okay