I dont have feelings for my girlfriend anymore, zero feelings, I want to break up with her but she's 7 months pregnant , I don't know if I should break up with her now or wait till the baby comes out, pls advice?
First of all, that’s fucked up and fucked up worse she’s only 7 months pregnant. You can’t leave her abandoned or astray while she is pregnant just because you don’t have feelings, she might doesn’t have anyone t help support her and she looks at you as someone to console her and help her through this because you and her having a baby together and that’ll be wrong, fucked up, and cowardly of you to leave. you shouldn’t have gotten her pregnant if it was gonna lead sooner not having feelings for her no more.
Second. Leaving your girlfriend while she's pregnant can be a difficult and complicated decision, and it's important to consider the impact it may have on both her and the baby. While it's understandable that you may no longer have feelings for her, it's important to approach the situation with empathy and compassion.
Breaking up with your girlfriend while she's pregnant can be particularly challenging, as it may cause her additional stress and emotional turmoil during an already difficult time. It's important to communicate your feelings honestly and respectfully, and to work together to develop a plan for co-parenting and supporting the baby after it's born.
If you do decide to break up with your girlfriend, it may be helpful to wait until after the baby is born so that you can focus on supporting her during the pregnancy and childbirth process. However, it's important to be honest with yourself and your girlfriend about your feelings, and to prioritize the well-being of both her and the baby in your decision-making.
Ultimately, the decision of whether or not to leave your girlfriend while she's pregnant is a deeply personal one that should be based on your individual circumstances and values. It may be helpful to seek out the advice and support of a trusted friend, family member, or therapist as you navigate this difficult situation.
Break up now, and have a plan for the baby ahead of the birth. If you two are not gonna be in a relationship, you have to agree whether you're gonna have shared custody, pay child support and stay out of it, or co-parent. Whatever you want to do with your baby it should be agreed before it comes. Waiting til after is stupid.
You got her pregnant so now you stay with her for the rest of your life or at the very least until that kid is 18 years old. The fact you don’t feel butterflies in your tummy anymore means nothing. You mean nothing. It’s all about that kid and you guys as a family now.
The second you got her pregnant your “feelings” isn't supposed to be a priority anymore. Suck it up and be a grown man.
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Both are just horrible options but if I had to choose it would be after the baby is born. You don't want to put undue stress on the pregnancy and cause her to lose the baby.
I think you should marry her so your child has a name. You need to step up and take responsibility for your actions.
And you feel nothing for your child? I feel sorry for you.
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