Did I deserve to get ignored/ghosted like this?

[Anonymous]

This girl started talking to me 3 months ago. We kicked it off amazing and she certainly showed signs she liked me in my opinion. She does have a boyfriend and I never once crossed any boundary. She came in tears to me saying that he was cheating and she tried calling him and ignores her. So for 3 days she looked so sad and I decided to text her to grab some food to cheer her up. She never spoke to me like she used too, hides, doesn't answer texts and now it's just small talk. She went from burning hot to ice cold. Why?

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anyone at all?

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Anyone else?

[Zarapeachy]

Frankly speaking you didn’t do anything wrong. You were there when her boyfriend messed up the relationship and that’s it. Either she was just nice to you and you read into it more or she really just used you in a sense while going through a rough patch with her boyfriend

[Asker]

I will tell you this. We only spoke for 5 minutes everyday. But there was times where she would wait for me. She works at a store and one time she even told me she never wanted me to leave, another time I helped her with her car, her boyfriend called and asked where she was, when she was talking with him she sounded dead, no emotion. Then when it was back to me she was like a kid in a store. Infact she was talking 90% of the time. I told her I'll only be 45 minutes to look at her car, that turned into 3 hours. She acted different when a co worker was around compared to just me and her. Infact she came literally with her make up or mascara running down her face telling me her boyfriend cheated on her. She was waiting for me outside. So again I was always respectful and never went out of line.

[LiamJHayden]

Ghosting is rarely deserved

[Asker]

That's the thing, she would talk to me every single day and some days even wait for me. I don't know what happened, I really don't. I was always respectful.

[LiamJHayden]

She might have met someone else and was too cowardly to let you know straight up. I do understand when girls especially ghost some hot head, because they want to avoid the drama.

[Asker]

The thing is she had a boyfriend and I never knew. Her co worker told me. She spoke to me every single day. I'm not a hit head or get mad, she was always happy to see me. She probably went back to her boyfriend. It's funny because she said he was probably cheating on her

[FifiJones]

Probably.

[Asker]

Why so? What did I do wrong? This girl said she never wanted me to leave when I went to the store she was at, kept trying to pull me aside one on one, I don't know what I did wrong here