I like my same sex?

[Anonymous]

I have never experienced such a thing before, but now I like my same sex, unfortunately it is not intentional, so I would appreciate it if you would keep the malicious answers to yourself. Without further ado, I have a very close girlfriend and a boyfriend whom I consider very close, which I kept to myself because I started to have feelings for that girlfriend and feared being misunderstood, but I came across an emotional moment and I can't explain how words were poured out of my mouth. I told you once that I like a girl. Then I convinced myself that my feelings for that girl were left behind, and I said who the girl was and that she was in the past, and I didn't get any adverse reaction. But as the day passed, I realized that he was not behind. And I said I'm not sure but I think I still like x and I got a backlash way above my expectations Don't call my close boyfriend as if an invisible wall has entered and if the girl finds out about this, she will never look at our friendship with the old eyes I screwed everything up what to do please write those who will help me.

[Anonymous]

It's understandable to feel confused and uncertain when you realize that you have feelings for someone of the same sex. It's important to remember that there is nothing wrong or abnormal about experiencing same-sex attraction. It can be difficult to navigate these feelings, especially when you're worried about how others might react or perceive you.

It sounds like you're struggling with how to handle your feelings for your female friend while also maintaining your relationships with your boyfriend and her. It's important to take some time to reflect on your feelings and what you truly want in your relationships. It might be helpful to talk to a trusted friend or a therapist about your feelings and get some guidance on how to move forward.

It's important to approach these conversations with openness and honesty, while also respecting other people's boundaries and feelings. It's possible that your friend and/or boyfriend might need time and space to process your feelings, and it's important to give them that space while also being clear about your own needs and feelings.

Remember that your feelings are valid, and it's okay to take some time to figure out what you want and how to navigate your relationships in a way that feels authentic and respectful to everyone involved.

[noohair]

My roommate in College was gay buy not out yet, He told me that when he started looking at people during puberty, it was guys not girls. Just be careful about who you tell. It is better to be careful then to trust everyone.

[GreekLorrd]

First of all, it's important to remember that your feelings are valid and it's okay to have attractions towards the same sex. It's important to be honest with yourself and others about how you feel, but it's also understandable that you may be afraid of being misunderstood or rejected.

In terms of what to do next, it's important to take some time to reflect on your feelings and what you want to do about them. It's also important to consider the potential impact on your close girlfriend and boyfriend, and how they may feel about your attraction to your same-sex friend.

If you feel comfortable, it may be helpful to talk to a trusted friend, family member, or therapist about your feelings and concerns. They can provide support and guidance as you navigate this situation.

Ultimately, it's important to remember that you have the right to explore your feelings and attractions, but it's also important to be respectful and considerate of others' feelings. It may take time to figure out what you want and how to move forward, but with self-reflection and support, you can work towards a solution that feels right for you.

[Anonymous]

Its just your decision. You probably aren't going to have both so you have to choose. If you like your girl friend best go with her.

[Anonymous]

There is nothing stopping you from having both.