How to get an ex back that hates you/says he’ll never love you again?

[Anonymous]

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1 mo

update: completely over him

[Anonymous]

It's NEVER gonna be a balanced relationship.
If he hates you, you're always gonna end up having to put a LOT of effort.

Just give yourself time to get over him, meaning:
- ZERO contacts
- ZERO following his facebook/instagram/whatever-social-media
- Surround urself with ur loved ones (usually family is best cuz u dont risk falling in love on someone else in this period)
- Do a LOOOOOT of intense excercise cuz it releases hormones that make you feel less in pain.
- Focus on other things that are YOUR hobbies

It will hurt... it will hurt badly... :(
But I promise you it will get better. Just hang in there.

And only after (and i'm talking about 6 or more months) that you are starting to feel more balanced again... only then... you start opening back for the idea of letting another guy get close to you.

[MrOracle]

You don't.

One of the hardest things you have to learn as an adult is that you cannot change other people, and you can't make someone love you or be with you. That's a hard pill to swallow, but it's reality, and the sooner you can accept that and learn to move on when this happens to you, the better off you are.

Trying to get someone back who doesn't want you is one of the most toxic and self-harming things you can do to yourself.

[Ametrine98]

It's impossible unless the universe brings you back or what if fated for each other but that will just make you overthink the best way is to move on and love yourself first

[SeriouslyFunny00]

Do you want him to say it twice? or maybe just give another guy who will treat you right a chance? You decide.

[AviatorTom]

Why would you want someone who hates you? Move on!

[ChillaxingLove]

Typically you should never get back with an ex depending on the circumstances. I don’t know your life. But if someone isn’t good for you, why go back. It’s probably good that you’re not together because sometimes people end up marrying would be ex’s aka the wrong person and they end up getting a divorce, because they didn’t know the person was like this, when actuality the signs were there you just ignored it. So I’d say move on

[MysteriousDarkness]

He said he hates you and will never love you. If you pursue him you won't get love, care or respect from him but could end up with stalking charges. On top of that you would have wasted your time.

[Asker]

but what if i get more attractive? maybe then?

[MysteriousDarkness]

It's not worth it. Why do you want someone who said they hate you and will never love you?

[MysteriousDarkness]

I read a reply of yours and you said he is immature and misogynistic. On top of that he has callee uou a lanky bitch, ugly slag, wast of sperm and paid someone to bully you. If you pursue him you would be pursuing a lot of toxicity, a lot of negativity, a lot of drama and a lot of stress. It doesn't matter how much you love him because hecwill continue to treat you like crap to be flushed down the toilet, throw you to the curb to be picked up like garbage.

[shades777]

Well I tell you this, I wouldn't want to try to be with someone who did not want me for me.


Reason is you don't want to pretend to be something your not to impress, because maintaining a lie is toxicity building up

[FilmGuy93]

Just do your own thing for a while and let him come back if/when he's ready to. You can't force stuff like that.

[Catsdaddy24]

He means it, don't ever hear those words and take them as if there not important, what did you do, what was he going through, do you care, how to get past a guy that hates me should be your question

[Asker]

this what happened: i’d moved on when he told me to stop staring at me in class (when i wasn’t) so i just remained quiet and didn’t look anywhere near him. then he proceeds to, unprovoked, text me calling me a “lanky bitch”, “an ugly slag”, “a waste of sperm” and more things. he paid someone to bully me.

[Asker]

but i still love him

[Asker]

he’s very immature though he throws things at people in class tells everyone to sut up andis extremely misogynistic but it is what it is n i love him still

[hiyamotherfers]

Why would you want to do that. girl that's toxic move on. Just let go

[Staximus]

I don’t know why you would want somebody back like that

[gag37627]

Well the typical: if he hates me, he truly loved me.

[hammeronfire]

Leave him alone and go find someone else, he’s not coming back

[noohair]

Don't waste your time, live your life moving forward.

[Anonymous]

Try to get fucked from behind by the other dudes who bang you. That'll give you clues

[BCRanger10]

Here's a better idea. Don't even try.

[slatyb]

Why would you want to? Meet I someone else.

[Yucy_Gluttony]

By wasting your life away trying.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Why would anyone ever want to do that?

[Anonymous]

What did you do for him to say that?

[Asker]

well i’d moved on when he told me to stop staring at me in class (when i wasn’t) so i just remained quiet and didn’t look anywhere near him. then he proceeds to, unprovoked, text me calling me a “lanky bitch”, “an ugly slag”, “a waste of sperm” and more things. he paid someone to bully me. he dragged his mate upstairs to verbally abuse me. he’s immature but i still love him. so the answer to your questions is nothing.

[Asker]

worded some things wrong i meant to stop staring at him in class and questions is without an s

[Opinion Owner]

I'm sorry but that sounds toxic as hell and you should probably move on from him. No one should be treated like that.

[TacosRAwesome]

Why would you do that?

[In_Trance]

Why would you do this?

[Asker]

because i love him

[In_Trance]

Doesn't seem like he feels the same

[Asker]

that’s why i asked the question...

[In_Trance]

Whatever works for you

You're wasting your time

[Asker]

i guess i just believe we’re soulmates because we had such a connection and lasted the longest

[In_Trance]

Apparently not

[Asker]

how should you know

[In_Trance]

You're not together!!! Smh...

[Genie23]

You need to move on, girl. If you keep chasing him even after said that, it will make you look desperate which means he will want to stay away from you even more.

[Asker]

i mean i think he’s just immature as hell (if u read my reply to another question asking why he said these things u’ll see), but I don't know it doesn’t stop me loving him. he probably just needs time to get over his insecurities and massive ego.

[In_Trance]

I think that point of view displays your lack of self-respect. You deserve better and if you can see what a shit show this is from the outside looking in you'd understand

[Anonymous]

You can't. Move on.

[clampfan101]

Maybe you can’t or shouldn’t.

[Minahh]

You don't want him back

[Dinklex3]

Move on.

[FreyaRed]

You can't.

[Drumlin2001]

You don't.

[Sasha0426]

You don’t

[Anonymous]

Move on