When in a relationship, how soon do you say the I LOVE YOU 🤟?

[Pinay_ako]

🤣

I say the 3 magic words when I’m ready and feeling it. It could be early on or down the road a month or two…

What about you?

[diana_james]

I wait a very long time. Because in the moment, things can seem a certain way or the other. However, over time, we are able to see how we truly feel about someone. But even that is not constant because how we feel about someone changes all the time. Those changes come based on our own ideas and how the other person is acting. My point is that, it is a good idea to wait and see how we constantly feel about someone. This consistency means that no matter the ups and downs of our feelings, we still love them. That is when I say I love you because I will truly mean it.

[Rosexøxø]

I say it if I feel like I’m serious for him, and if we bonded.

We can keep a good convo going, but that won’t prove much. If he and I vibe and that goes on for some time, I will see that as a good sign NOT to hold back from saying what I would probably feel naturally in such a good setting, anyways.

[Lliam]

I don't until I'm sure that I want to spend the rest of my life with her and I think she feels the same way. And that's a huge commitment; the biggest decision anyone will ever make.

Saying "I love you" just because you are infatuated either clueless or manipulative. Infatuation isn't the same as love.

[chicosuave]

well ill have her say it first. then if i feel it ill tell her i love. but she has to tell me first.

[Pinay_ako]

Why can’t you say it first

[chicosuave]

Its complicated. i dont like to fall for someone that doesn't love me.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Bingo

[nawtee_me]

@Pinay_ako if love is conditional that they have to say it first then is it really love? I mean if I love someone then I love them even if they don’t feel the same way. If I have to hear it before I can feel it then what happens if she tells me ,” I hate you”?

[Pinay_ako]

@nawtee_me why do people need to hear it first before they say it to be sure? Is it really love too?

[nawtee_me]

@Pinay_ako if you cannot speak what is in your heart then maybe it is not in your heart? If it is not in your heart then hearing it cannot put it there…. I think maybe they don’t know what love is or confuse it with lust.

[Leapfrog00]

I usually wait for the girl to say it. Sometimes though, she says it in the first week, which kind of freaks me out. Usually, those are the clingy girls.

Sometimes if I remember, I'll discuss it with them in the very beginning of the relationship, and ask them what their boundaries are, and when they feel comfortable with saying 'I love you'. That's proved most successful for me.

[mobiusforniner]

I've said it to very few people. I didn't grow up ever hearing it said to me.

To the ones I've said it to, i meant it. And for those few women who have received those words from me, considering im also a hopeless romantic... it hits haaaarrd.

Theyve usually ended up speechless. Then they fall flat, followed by violent twitching and then foaming at the mouth.

[exitseven]

I never could figure that out. I waited a year and that was too long. Then I did it after a month and it just creeper her out apparently. I waited for her to say it once. With my wife I think we both said it at the same time. Maybe after our 3rd or 4th date.

[Unit1]

I prefer to wait until the girl makes simple remarks or indicators - even subtle ones - about us being in a relationship like she wonders about us like "so does that make us boyfriend and girlfriend?" and then strike. Then I know i don't have to embarrass myself. Give her a little string to pull and if she pulls, then it will come out.

[Siri137]

That image is actually scary. I hope I never encounter anyone like those two ever, for as long as I live.

[Pinay_ako]

🤣 omg

[Fuentes]

If we dated an within a month or two u said I love you I would have to dump you because I don't find that possible I would have shared 25% of my life in those two months and haven't even seen every side to me hahahaha

[Pinay_ako]

🤣 oh wow rude

[Fuentes]

I'm saving you in the long run from yourself lol

[Pinay_ako]

🤣 thank you

[NathanDavis]

as soon as we love each other...

and yes, that haircut is goals... 💯

[Pinay_ako]

🤣 yes if my man isn’t matching with me, it’s not happening 😂

[Anemone978]

I just say it whenever, it could be because they said it, it could be just cuz i'm happy, I don't always mean it when I say it tho..
I only really been in love once but I have told lots of people I loved them..

[DizzyDesii]

I definitely say it when i feel we both feel it. Sometimes it was said too soon or too late but either way I don’t regret saying it. Normally its in month 1 or 2 tho.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

❤️ The Best Time To Say I LOVE YOU Is When You Really Mean It.♥️

[DannyUk2017]

I'm not saying it very often, but mostly in bed, usually i "show" how much i Love her, words are coming and going but "fact" are there to Stay.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

My ex fiance said it in 2 months. It took me 6 or 7 months to me though.

[Andres77]

When I recognize it and get a feel for how she’ll react. If it’s too soon for her then I don’t want to scare her off.

[vcordero123]

I would wait until I’ve been with the person long enough to have learned about who they are as a person and their main flaws. That way, I know that I have an idea of who they truly are, not an idealized version of them

[varan69]

There is no time frame that u can say its the right time. You just feel it and it comes out naturally from you or the heart lets say

[AliSulayman]

When I feel it. If the sex is great and we click on everything and I feel safe and happy with the absence of drama. Second month or third maybe.

[SAMI_DABBAB]

Hint to it whenever you wanna say it, usually over a month to say it but in case a really memorable moment was created for sure go for it

[RoastedToast]

When she says it first. Then say it back but to psyche 😂

[nawtee_me]

If I am in a relationship then I probably have said it a few times already. She doesn’t have to say it first.

[Christoff92]

Anytime

[BrookeS]

Depends on the person. It could be the second day, it could be the second month

[Jamie05rhs]

When I was little I used to say it even before the first date! 😆

[LiamJHayden]

When I choose to do so. I takes me some time to do that.

[Juxtapose]

When I feel like it and I feel like they feel the same way

[Valens96]

I’d probably say those words once I feel like I care about this girl’s well-being more than i do anybody else

[Manuel2]

As soon as i know the sex is more than stress relief

[Britney04]

When you see how they react to you when your having a bad day.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

I sometimes even say those words before the relationship starts. Sometimes I say it several times. I love my Flower Girl, as I love my divine sisters.

[RavVid]

When it drunkenly seems appropriate.

[ObscuredBeyond]

I usually wait about 6 months.

[LovingJo]

When you feel like the time is right 💯❤️

[OddBeMe]

Whatever you have to do to get her in bed. Then pretend to mean to the baby you just made.

[ChiTown33]

I assume when I feel it.

[Legendarylegacy13]

When you actually feel that way.

[Reddy4it]

Depends on the other person…

[PointTaken]

When I feel it and I know I do love the person.

[Twalli]

When I am feeling it.

[Bklynbadboy12]

I don't if I don't mean it

[roy_ricky09]

Never

[Pinay_ako]

Never?

[roy_ricky09]

Yea... Why say it if you know it's there

[ChillaxingLove]

You will know

[Yucy_Gluttony]

Day one?

[Akam93]

3 to 4 months.

[dudeinohio]

Yeah, me too

[Ur1local2bisexual]

Same day

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

When I feel it.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

'You must love one another.' -- John 13:34

[Anonymous]

Never

[Pinay_ako]

Never say? Or never been in a relationship?

[Opinion Owner]

I've never Said I love you. It's too much pressure

[Opinion Owner]

And I don't feel like I've ever been in a relationship because I've never truly cared about the females