Have you held onto toxic relationships out of fear of being alone forever?

[Anonymous]

Have you ever not broken up with someone for years even though the spark is gone because you have emotional security there even though it is a toxic relationship that is taking a toll on you mentally but you stayed out of fear of loneliness?

These days the internet is scaring women into settling for anything while they’re young and then they get divorced in a few years and are considered damaged goods by the very men who brainwash women to get married young.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Pretty much literally me. I've developed an entirely different personality I guess. That guy is not me anymore. I've taken over. I will murder her and make it look like a suicide if she tries the shit I'm reading from these journals. Such a nasty bitch. Like... if we read this shit together, you'd be hateful towards this chick with me. It really is that bad. Dude was trying so hard too. She's a slut... and I think that's the bottom conclusion.

Thank gawed he revenge cheated so damn much. Jesus... so many. Don't blame the guy... he was trying to stay sane and now I've taken over. I'm red pilled as fuck. Bitch isn't going to know what hit her.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Let me turn my attention to you for a second. So a chick decides to get with a dude that isn't good for her and then it's all men's fault? You sure men brainwashed her into that shit? I'm thinking it was women that pushed her in that direction. The journals of this guy I'm reading about... was exactly that. She had hawt friends... they said do this and do that... and she did... really fucked up shit. Basically, chicks talking other chicks into doing things that chicks would openly say is wrong. But chicks amongst themselves will justify some of the worst things I've ever come to imagine.

Downright dirty. Right now at this point, I'm questioning if chicks even have morals inside themselves. Are they the types of people that claim you have to believe in religion to not kill people? Those people always sounded retarded to me but, with this context... it's starting to make sense. It's like they don't have a mind and heart of their own... they do what their friends think is awesome. They're not even themselves.

Am I making any sense or do I just sound retarded. I'm going the STFU... I probably just sound retarded.

[Asker]

You sound very angry and like you have a lot of thoughts running through your head that are conflicting and so you haven’t articulated your thoughts clearly enough to properly understand your point.

[Spade_01]

Sure have. It started all good and relaxing. But it later grew toxic. It was even much later that I realised that it had become toxic but the attachment was too strong. One day, I realised that it's not worth it so I decided it to end it. A little on and offs for a month or two till we finally parted our ways with each other.

[Anemone978]

Yeah I tried for as long as I could for the children and to be honest I didn't want to hurt my husband... but once I was so suicidal I tried killing myself I knew it was time to go... we could get back together, but people usually don't change so I really don't want to go back..

[Andres77]

I’m glad you’re still around for your children’s sake

[katiesmuff]

Actually until I met the man who is now my husband I never was with anyone I cared that much about.

[KostasKouvalis]

Not me, but I know people who have and it's very sad. But I've held on to toxic friends both out of loneliness and fear. The divorce thing is so true and it's very sad.
Did you finally get a boyfriend?

[KostasKouvalis]

By the way, the last scenario you mentioned works both ways. I've seen women do the same thing to men

[exitseven]

I stayed in a bad relationship because I didn't think I would find anyone else but also I thought that she would change.

[Andres77]

Out of wanting to do the right thing. I just prolonged my agony

[Bklynbadboy12]

No I've never don't that but I hung on a lot longer than I should've. What about you?

[Anonymous]

No, but maybe I should have.

[htmndg183]

Yes :'(

[eagle1951]

never