I am 25 and dont know how I fell in love with my student, He was frank to me but after realizing my feelings he blocked me now how to face him daily?

[AimaImran]

I was too hurt and contacted him through other account but he again blocked me. Now i dont know i should i deal with him and face him and teach him in my class? I feel guilty and blank. I can not leave my job and wanna know the solution.

[PrettyPriya]

Uh, how old was your student? You are quite young yourself, so I am guessing you are not teaching at a university. Honestly, you may not have to worry about teaching him. You could get fired. I am sorry to be so blunt, but it is true.

I don't know of a school that allows relationships of any sorts with students. Even if there was no physical contact, there obviously was some sort of emotional contact if he blocked you.

If I were you, I would be way less worried about facing him in class and far more concerned when his parents and school admins find out. That is going to be a lot more damaging than having to look him in the eyes during school.

You made a massive mistake. If you are lucky enough to survive this if he keeps it quiet, do yourself and everyone else a favour and just keep it that way... quiet. You will have dodged a huge bullet. The fact that you are worrying about your feelings and yourself is disappointing considering you shouldn't have done this in the first place. Smh.

[AimaImran]

Thankyou for your concern... I will try my best and yeah ofcourse there is not physical contact.. i did not even admit infront of him about my feelings but he knows... And yeah we dont talk more in person without any need.. we just talked on text... its just the problem of my and his emotions nothing else.

[Anonymous]

You really need to leave your position. You seriously are not fit to be a teacher.

[AimaImran]

Its not like that you dont know the whole story and just blaming me 😊 he took first step and did everything.. he had been texting me full day and took care of me a lot a lot ! I did nit say anything like that i love etc.. becayse i know i shoulf not.. but i for sure not a robot and got habitual of it.. and ofcourse there is no physical contact between us i can not allow ! Em just talking about my emotions.. there is nothing else.

[Anonymous]

It's important to acknowledge that it's not appropriate for a teacher to have romantic feelings towards their student, as there is a power dynamic at play that can make it difficult for the student to make informed and consensual decisions. It's also important to respect the boundaries that your former student has set by blocking you, and to not try to contact him again through other accounts.

Moving forward, it's important to maintain a professional and respectful relationship with your former student in the classroom. It may be helpful to consider seeking support from a therapist or counselor to process your emotions and work through any guilt or confusion that you may be feeling. It's also important to reflect on the boundaries and ethics of your role as a teacher and to ensure that you are maintaining appropriate boundaries with your students in the future.

[king34]

The fact that she is not answering anyone asking the age tells the whole story. she's only 25 there's no way she is a college professor. The boy must be below 18.

Children go to school to learn and grow not to be harrassed by you. Those parents trust you with their kids. You need to leave your job but i doubt a sicko like you would have enough human decency or integrity and by the looks of things you dont even believe you did anything wrong. I hope he tells someone eventually and you get what you deserve.

Hopefully jail time but at the very least you should be on the registry

[RavVid]

How old is he first? You have duties as a teacher that preclude having feelings for a student and cracking onto him with a view to having a carnal relationship.

What you have done is quite wrong but he has saved your bacon by not taking it further than blocking. I think you should feel grateful.

[lightbulb27]

How old is he?

You need to get professional help because something went wrong. Use your companies employee assistance line, counselor? I'm not sure, you may need to talk to a lawyer first.

you may need time off work.

[Anonymous]

Don't entertain him and give him ego boost. Have your dignity as girls and his lecturer. That guy sounds like an ass anyway

[AimaImran]

Thankyou for your concern... I will try my best... I am not like this but for sure i am not a robot and have feelings.. he took first step not me.. he tried to get close to me for many days then i got that feelings for him and become habitual of him. He used to text me full day and ask me to reply quickly.. he took care of me.. i have not said him still that i love him because i can't.. but he knows ! And when he knew about it he stepped back ! But yeah i will try my best to ignore !

[Opinion Owner]

I understand. We can't suppress our feelings. by the way I sent you a request

[AimaImran]

Ok let me check

[Opinion Owner]

This woman is a weirdo. That guy found it out soon

[king34]

@gag37627 Imagine simping for a sick woman like this. You both should be ashamed

[king34]

@gag37627 explained things to me and wanted me to post this

"I'm sorry, I hurt you. I should have read your last messages well. I was so convinced from things in my head I didn't even get the simple idea of your messages. I thought you just wanted to know it was me. It was the only thing processing in my head that you were being nice to me to get the answers you wanted.

When I reread your messages you were already gone closing your account. "

[LiamJHayden]

How old is he? What type of class? Is it public or private school? What are the laws in your state regarding those in authority, as it might be a crime even if he is 18?

[In_Trance]

You should take a leave from work and seek counselling

[Unit1]

I would tell you to treat it like its the third time you met your student but I suppose only I can do that.

[msc545]

Be grateful you have not been caught yet. Get professional help.

[Anonymous]

Simple, resign your position and get another job. And keep it in your damn pants!!!

[Iron_Man]

How old is he?

[Agape93]

How old is he

[Anonymous]

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