You are still young , sadly your time will probably come , I pray that it doesn’t for your sake but it more than likely will come once you have your heart shit on for selfish reasons it’s going to change how you look at things , cuz I use to be just like you , I never had the thought of cheating on anyone I get into a relationship with , my intentions is to just have her for the rest of my life , but sadly selfishness comes into play and you realize you are being taken for granted by someone you gave your heart to , no matter what you do for that person they eventually get bored and the passion fades away , they become selfish and only care about themselves , they withhold intimacy and affection from you to the point you are Going to get it from somewhere else , Once you experience those bad seeds in your life you will be thinking differently but I pray you get a good seed first
Sadly most people are too scared to just walk away from someone because they are scared of being alone and scared of making the wrong decision scared they are making a mistake Again most people in general are selfish people , especially if they invested a lot of time with someone that gave them their heart and they invested a lot of money into their home and cars etc. That they built together , So for someone just to throw that all away for someone else is a long shot , most people cheat hoping to find someone to save them , they don’t have the courage to just get up and leave, they tolerate the abuse their partner is doing to them because of what is invested. Pushing their own wants a needs aside thinking it’s the right thing to do , eventually they realize they are missing out and that’s where selfishness comes into play , instead of fixing their relationship they latch on to someone else to fulfill them thinking this new person is going to save them and bring new passion and desire back into their lives , I was married for 15 years to. A girl that I thought was going to be by my side until the end , but her selfishness took the best of her , she started belittling me , treating me like shit , distancing herself from me , withholding intimacy and affection from me and treating me like I was her punching bag , I was devastated and didn’t know what I did wrong , to realize I did nothing wrong she was just being sweet talked by a co worker that wanted to fuck her and he got his wish , So I no longer tolerate a girl that withholds intimacy and affection from me , I made that mistake once before and I will never make that mistake again, so the last girlfriend I had I cheated on her because her selfishness was shining just like my ex wife’s I am no longer going to be a sitting duck for someone that can’t give what I am giving them. I am not proud of cheating but I proud I didn’t allow myself to be taken for granted again
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Bo, not afraid like your case things can ve complicated not all people that cheat are bad people or assholes
No but I did chat with 2 or 3 women at one time. But most of the time they are fake girls.
Sometimes I wish that I was a cheater so that I can get loyal girlfriends.
No, because I'm not and it's something I don't see myself doing.
Most of you probably won’t believe me but never cheated before never will
I'ved cheated once and I told her, kinda wish I didn't, there was no need to share that info
But you're not sorry for it?
Sorry I told her
Damn.
I’ve never cheated I broke up with them
And I’ll fucking do it again.
u r really fucked in ur brain.
@mstoxicprincess Woman, I KNOW. I was born this way. Deal!
I have never cheated.
I have never cheated and never will
You are still young , sadly your time will probably come , I pray that it doesn’t for your sake but it more than likely will come once you have your heart shit on for selfish reasons it’s going to change how you look at things , cuz I use to be just like you , I never had the thought of cheating on anyone I get into a relationship with , my intentions is to just have her for the rest of my life , but sadly selfishness comes into play and you realize you are being taken for granted by someone you gave your heart to , no matter what you do for that person they eventually get bored and the passion fades away , they become selfish and only care about themselves , they withhold intimacy and affection from you to the point you are Going to get it from somewhere else , Once you experience those bad seeds in your life you will be thinking differently but I pray you get a good seed first
If passion is over, why don't we left they instead of cheating?
Sadly most people are too scared to just walk away from someone because they are scared of being alone and scared of making the wrong decision scared they are making a mistake Again most people in general are selfish people , especially if they invested a lot of time with someone that gave them their heart and they invested a lot of money into their home and cars etc. That they built together , So for someone just to throw that all away for someone else is a long shot , most people cheat hoping to find someone to save them , they don’t have the courage to just get up and leave, they tolerate the abuse their partner is doing to them because of what is invested. Pushing their own wants a needs aside thinking it’s the right thing to do , eventually they realize they are missing out and that’s where selfishness comes into play , instead of fixing their relationship they latch on to someone else to fulfill them thinking this new person is going to save them and bring new passion and desire back into their lives , I was married for 15 years to. A girl that I thought was going to be by my side until the end , but her selfishness took the best of her , she started belittling me , treating me like shit , distancing herself from me , withholding intimacy and affection from me and treating me like I was her punching bag , I was devastated and didn’t know what I did wrong , to realize I did nothing wrong she was just being sweet talked by a co worker that wanted to fuck her and he got his wish , So I no longer tolerate a girl that withholds intimacy and affection from me , I made that mistake once before and I will never make that mistake again, so the last girlfriend I had I cheated on her because her selfishness was shining just like my ex wife’s I am no longer going to be a sitting duck for someone that can’t give what I am giving them. I am not proud of cheating but I proud I didn’t allow myself to be taken for granted again
I have never cheated and I won't.
Can't admit what I haven't done.
Nope, because I've never cheated.
I don't know. Because I've never cheated.
I'm just not
never have or will
Bad girl/boys obviously
You can blame crack