Do you and your partner argue more in preparation for/on a vacation?

[Anonymous]

I‘m interested in how many other couples argue with their partner more in the run up to a vacation/on vacation. I think me and my partner are both organisers so we butt heads sometimes. So we both get stressed and worked up and we end up arguing before we‘ve even gone anywhere. What about you?

[lilyanony1]

It was pretty simple going away with one boyfriend, he organised it and off we drove. It was the worst experience of my life because he got really ill with the flu. And everything closed early so the first night he shivered and snored all night so neither of us got any sleep.
The second night we were just so tired that we spent our time just trying to recover.

We were united as we were in a town were basically they acted like they'd never seen black people before.

The hotel had lots of rules like no drinks from the bar in your room, no food from external places too.
It was clear why it was so cheap.
It was a terrible trip we laughed about it but it was just no good.

[midnightmoon05]

I don’t like to fight or argue about things.
I work most of the days and he plans everything. I trust him 💯 and give him all the power to make our trip fun. He did a great job last summer. I know for sure this summer will be just as fun.
he said before he met me, he didn’t know how to plan and his ex didn’t like how he planned things.

I think women need to let/trust their men to do things their way. And sit next to him and plan together to share ideas and learn to communicate. To me that’s team work that shows love and respect.

[asphaltrhymes]

I'm single, but I sure can picture them arguing. It just seems like a bad relationship cliche and probably true. After that, I wonder why those types still bother with the vacation or holiday. Like, it's like, just arguing. Ahahaha. Glad I'm single 😁😁

[asphaltrhymes]

That's the irony though. Happy couples. Unhappy travelling though 👀😳

[AviatorTom]

A little of both, but probably more heated discussions planning the vacation. Once we're on vacation, we pretty much go with the flow.

[Pinay_ako]

I am the one who does the bookings and plannings most of the time but that’s after coming to an agreement where and when we are going.

[sunflower00]

I’m an organiser so I usually write out a whole plan, show my boyfriend and if he wants to change anything I let him change it. We both respect each other and our interests so I include things we will both enjoy and he doesn’t remove the things I want to do to replace them with things he wants to do

[desidoll]

I plan our itenarary, and my husband will give his opinion if there is something he disagrees with. We do argue a little because he is more concerned with the accomodation price, while my main priority is to be as close to the city so we could easily move around, which more likely to cost us more. We usually reach to a mutual agreement by the end of the plan.

[Adam1978]

No it's shouldn't be a argument. It should be a discussion otherwise she is creating issues where there is none. The vacation plan needs to be set, but it shouldn't cause an argument because that means it's a bad plan for one or both.

[asphaltrhymes]

It shouldn't. It shouldn't, right? Hooray for us merry single men 😜

[Pudsmucker]

I will agree with you we argue every time we sit down and plan our vacation. Then my companion she likes to drive for me while I'm driving on the vacation it aggravates me. She wants to drive a letter drive but she we'll set in the passenger seat. Then she tell me how to get there.

[exitseven]

We go to the same place on vacation every year although we have not had a vacation for 4 years It does not look good for this year either.

[Miristheiss]

Probably on the vacation.