WHAT DO I DOOOOO?

[Anonymous]

I met someone online August 2022. I had seen pictures of him but only half face or just putting emojis over his face and found him very attractive. But today for the first time I saw his face completely through pictures he sent me AND I DONT FIND HIM ATTRACTIVE AT ALLLL? IS IT JUST A BAD PICTURE? IS IT JUST THE ANGLE? I don't know IM HAVING A CRISIS BECAUSE IM IN LOVE WITH THE PERSON THAT I THOUGHT HE WAS AND I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO NOW. we have supposedly been doing long distance since Feb 16 and he’s supposed to come see me next month BUT NOW I NEED TO CUT EVERYTHING OFF. AM I A BITCH FOR THIS? Uuugggghhhhh i completely thought he was a complete diferente person. It was all made up in my head BUT NOW HOW DO I CUT HIM OFF WITHOUT HURTING HIS FEEINGS. he’s a great guyy BUT FUCK wtf wtf wtf. I NEED ANSWERS. HELPPPP. SHOULD I EVEN ANSWER AT ALL ANYMORE? I feel like I have to say something right?

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Some say don’t judge a book by its cover & others say looks aren’t everything. As for you your judging a book by its cover & for people who say looks aren’t everything they are full of crap. As for love it works in mysterious ways & in life if you never try you will never know. As for the heart the heart wants what the heart wants & so does the brain. On the other hand online dating isn’t all lollipops & candy drops & unfortunately what you think you are getting sometimes you get the opposite & hearts do get broken.

Online if you see some one you like & you two are talking & you happen to exchange or see photos of the person you can always do the spoon test to verify their photos.

Have the person hold up two spoons next to their face & send you a photo & if they can’t do it or give you a hard time about doing it it’s possible you are being catfished.

Don’t be afraid to have the person meet you in the parking lot of your local police station as well. Safety first!

[RHK36]

You are shallow and base attractiveness solely on body. You want help? Stay single until you mature. Or keep acting how you are and this will be a new norm for you.

[Gent207-2]

You are being catfished - block him on all social media outlets and avoid him at all costs

[In_Trance]

You're being catfished

[DarkWinterNights]

How is it catfishing?