ok so me and this girl have been talking for like a week now (long distance) and ever since we met we have had an instant connection. i really dont know why its so strong but there has to be some reason. yesterday she opened up and said that a while before she met me she was with another girl but they broke up and the girl moved away. the girl is coming back into town for the summer and asked if she could see the girl im talking to, for this im going to refer to her as my girl. my girl immediately told me about this and said she would be lying if she didn't want to go see her but obvi she wouldn't do that behind my back. she said she has had false hope and the relationship they had in the back of her mind for some time now but since meeting me she's never felt the way she feels about me but obviously there's still a little bit of something there for the ex. its just a whole ordeal bc me and my girl both dont want us to end because we have never felt like this for people before, but her ex is messing with her head. we dont know what the right decision is for this bc we both feel SO STRONGLY for each other but know its not right that the ex is still playing a small part. i know its obvious that if she's thinking of her ex then why would i stay, but its not like that even though thats how it sounds. we are just so confused because of this whole situation. whenever situations like this happen my gut always tells me to leave and end it because thats whats right, but this time its not telling me this. something is telling me that its not right to leave
Need opinions on the situation/love triangle im in right now?
