Is it normal behaviour that my boyfriend is constantly sexualising me and bring up sexual comments in conversation? (Page 2)

ALM5249 · 2023-06-08T11:45:09Z

I’m getting so sick and tired of being objectified on a daily basis by my long distance relationship boyfriend. Every single phone call we have he whips his penis out and shows me and sometimes starts stroking it. He will also call me things like ‘sex kitten’ and growl at me and it is starting to drive me insane. I can’t have a single conversation with him without him turning it into ‘I’m having naughty thoughts about you right now’ or ‘the things I wanna do to you right now’. It’s making me feel like that’s all I’m worth to him, some sexual object and it’s starting to affect me mentally. The last straw was when he sent me a bunch of reels and they were about him trying to stop himself from having naughty thoughts about me because he didn’t want me to think that’s all that he thinks about when he’s with me. It’s getting too much so I’ve started to ignore those messages. If I’m on video call and I turn around he’s like ‘oh yeah look at that booootay’. This has been going on for way too long as well. He can’t help himself from saying sexual things when we are together. If I tell him I’m going to shower he’s like ‘send pics’ or ‘mmmm wish I could join you’ How can I get him to stop this? It’s making me feel very uncomfortable and I don’t want to see him again if it continues

ALM5249

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Anonymous
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That is not normal in any way, and he only see's you as a sex object. You should end that relationship for the sake of your mental health.

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He needs to be able to have a normal conversation with you too and like other things about you, but do you have a problem with him desiring you!

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Would you rather be, "just friends" then? lmao

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You lost me at "Long Distance"

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Why shouldn't try me 😂😂

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The distance isn't helping.

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