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Should we just go for it?

Puppystarfish23

Me and my boyfriend of four years have recently moved into are first home together and we are doing really well together.

The only thing is he's working two jobs to keep the money coming in and his business isn't doing very well at the moment due to his partner no longer making any effort on the business. He's saying the business isn't making him happy anymore and isn't his dream of what he wants anymore and he's annoyed at his business partner.

He's been looking on line for some local jobs in what he wants to do but they are not offering as much as further afield. He's always dreamed of being a head Gardner on a rural estate somewhere in Scotland or Yorkshire he's very much qualified to do the job and he'd be amazing at it.

These jobs usually offer a cottage on the grounds rent free and a job for the partner such as cleaning.

I've been encouraging him to go local as we've just started are life's living together and I'm still learning to drive. I already live a hour away from my family and don't see them much but we are close and I do miss them but I'm uses to being away from them now and we have facetime.

Only a year and half ago I moved to be with him in his home town now I have a life here and he's asking if I wanna move to Scotland with him were ill have no one but him.

I don't have really any big dreams for myself, my dream is my boyfriend. I want us to be happy and married with children. I will do anything for him and I told him this. I told him to apply for the job in Scotland tonight and see what happens because he keeps going on about it so he must really want to do it and I will always support him.

I've not spoken to my family about it yet but I'm seeing them tomorrow so I will talk to them then.

We've talked about renting our house out too if he gets this job in Scotland

Should we just go for it?
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