Should I ask my ex if I should move on? Go on a date with a guy who just asked me out?

[missmiss]

• I dated a guy for few weeks. He was super sweet and caring. Until I said I like him, he said he isn't ready for commitment, didn't know if he ever will be. He was probably in there just for sex or maybe not. He broke up with me after that, saying '' u deserve better ''. I begged, he didn't stay.
• It's been 2 weeks since then. I have been asked out by two guys. Out of sadness or anger, I agreed to go on a date with one guy.
• I want to be fair to the guy that I meet, give my 100% , but one last time, should I ask my ex if I should move on? Go on a date?

[OlderAndWiser]

One of the biggest mstakes in a relationship hopng or expecting that someone will change for you. It rarely happens! If he says he isn't ready for commitment and that's what you want. . . then suppose he stays with you to try to make youhappy; eventually, he will become angry at being in a situation he doesn't want to be in, and he will blame you, and your world will fall apart.

If he isn't ready for commitment, it doesn't mean that he isn't ready for commitment with you; he barely knows you. It just means that he isn't a suitable dating candidate for you and, if despite all the other good things you know about him, you would have been better off if you hadn't met him.

Yu need to learn to let go of situations like this and look forward, not backwards. And NEVER beg a partner to stay. If they dont stay, you feel like a fool for begging; if they do stay, they know that they own you and the relationship goes downhill very quickly.

I suspect that you have some problems with self-confidence and the best cure for that is for you to keep dating, telling yourself that you are not looking for a serious relatonship. You need to learn that guys are attracted to you, that you know hw to be charming, and that you can hold their attention.

[__MisterGoneShiner__]

Giden gitmiştir gittiği gün bitmiştir.
A Turkish expression. It's meaning is...
The day when a person leaves, thats the end on that day.

[Anonymous]

Just line your life and move on.
There is no need for the games and ploy for attention

[The_Naughty_Guy]

He’s your ex. You don’t need to ask him anything