Guys, do you remember special days in your relationship like anniversaries? Do you like celebrating it? Why/why not?

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Ladies, do you expect your man to remember?

razelove · Accepted Answer

I have a terrible memory, like I forgot about father's day until today. I just remember the birthdays and forget about the rest unless someone calls to remind me.

I do enjoy celebrating with my wife and family. I really really do. Really for entirely selfish reasons. Life, and the time that we're healthy in it is so very short. The more time I can spend with the people I love, with all of us fully mobile and cognizant is a wonderful thing.

Like one day my parents won't check all those boxes and it'll make me real sad, though I'll be happy to take care of them through that. For my kids and theirs in the future, it'll be me and my wife. After something like 15 years though, the anniversaries are far less important than being satisfied with just being together every day :)

strateguy632 · Accepted Answer

i lose track.

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

If only one of us remembered an anniversary/bday is coming up, i would expect that person remind the other instead of hoping we both remember. My memory is bad and I hardly remember the day of the week. If the guy forgot, i likely forgot before first 😂

DancingQueen16 · Accepted Answer

I remember all the important dates like I remember my boyfriend's birthday and I could never forget our anniversary date

AviatorTom · Answer

I remember all kinds of important dates... birthdays, anniversaries, move dates, vacations

Potteplante · Answer

My late fiance was amazing at remembering special days - me on the other hand not so much.

Only reason I always remembered is birthday, is that it was the day after Valentine's - the world reminded me when his birthday was coming up. He was amazing at reminding me tho, so I'd never forget completely & I was always appreciative of it.

Andres77 · Answer

If she’s worth spending my life with, if I make myself vulnerable to her emotionally, if I am willing to have a joint bank account with her, if I am willing to have her on my insurance policies… then she’s important enough, and she should mean enough to me to memorize a few dates as an expression of how important she is to me.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

He is better at these. Often reminds. I generally don’t make a big deal because he already does a lot to make me feel love and special on a regular bases.

alearningboy · Answer

She will kill me if I have forgotten one day but Im telling to her that she doesn't have to think about those days because for me is every day special. What we are doing everyday with her is special. If I buy one flower is special. Thatsway I tolt her to forget about remembering something.

schoolgirlskirtcaley · Answer

I want my hubby to remember but it doesn’t shock me if he doesn’t. 🤣

spartan55 · Answer

Anniversary (annual), birthday... that's good enough.

exitseven · Answer

My wife;s birthday is on Labor day. We got married the week after New Years Day, It makes it easy to remember

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

That's what calendar reminders are for. I rarely know what day it is.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

If I had a girlfriend, I would remember special days such as her birthday, anniversary, etc.

Sparkie460 · Answer

I remember them better than she does. I remember the day we started dating, where we went for our first date, the date we started having sex, our anniversary and her birthday.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

I seriously don't care about such stupidity like that. Totally meaningless. It's equivalent to birthdays, once you reach a certain age it just doesn't matter anymore.

Reorx · Answer

No I don't remember unless I keep notes. I love spending time with my partner for any reason:) On thi flip side my birthday etc.. Isn't a big deal either. Work or homes my favorite place to be.

tfan1 · Answer

I do. She doesn’t. I remember the day of our first date, first kiss, etc 🙂. She doesn’t 💔😞

roy_ricky09 · Answer

Lol... No If you remind to remember it, I would. 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣

bananathunder · Answer

hells yeah... I'll use any date as an excuse to go out on a date ;)

Z1pTD · Answer

I remember but we don't really celebrate we just reminisce

Guardian45 · Answer

In a relationship, I ALWAYS remember, but sometimes they don't!

RavVid · Answer

I remember after being told.

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

I still sometimes re-check if I paid the monthly health insurance bill or not.

justabuddy · Answer

I'm always thinking aboutbkeeping the relationship alive that I tend to forget those items.

eagle1951 · Answer

remembered all 37 of mind would have been 43

ColHathi · Answer

Sounds like you're assuming all women just remember these sorts of things ^^ Maybe I'm wrong, but I would imagine that women are about as bad/good with that stuff as men.

BLP11520 · Answer

Yes but it’s different when you get older

Bobbysworld · Answer

Of course

Fuentes · Answer

Lol no

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