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Guys, a girl you really cared for dumped you, but later comes back asking for forgiveness. Do you take her back? (Page 2)
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No I don't want a Rollercoaster relationship. A breakup is permanent, you should never do that out of a whim.
I think it does not make sense to take her back or even for her to expect that I would take her back.
On 2 different occasions a girl I liked chose somebody else and after getting pregnant and the guy leaving her came back for me which I of course had no part of. Not exactly the same but similiar.
I know a lot of people say they won’t but they actually will take them back if they really love them and think about them 24/7. I know I would take them back if I really love them.
If I really wanted to be with her, I'd probably be grateful if she decided to continue seeing me.
Yes, but for how long until she does it again?
I'm basically a weak beta male wimp, and I'd consider myself lucky just to spend money on a beautiful woman who has nothing but utter contempt for me. People always tell me that I should have more respect for myself, but all I want to do is be the perfect simp and lackey for the beautiful women who torment me day after day. If she does it again, I'll just have to deal with it.
I don't believe you are the wuss you describe. You DO need more self-respect. If you can't respect yourself, no one else will either. That woman will have you tied around your finger tighter than a Chinese finger trap.
A Chinese finger trap (also known as a Chinese finger puzzle, Chinese thumb cuff, Chinese handcuffs, and similar variants) is a gag toy used to play a practical joke on unsuspecting children and adults. The finger trap is a simple puzzle that traps the victim's fingers (often the index fingers) in both ends of a small cylinder woven from bamboo. The initial reaction of the victim is often to pull their fingers outward, but this only tightens the trap. The way to escape the trap is to push the ends toward the middle, which enlarges the openings and frees the fingers. The single-ended version, sold as a "girlfriend trap", has been available since at least 1870, when it was recorded as a "Mädchenfänger" or "girl catcher"
I don't disagree with you; you're 100% right in what you're saying, but I've gradually come to realize that my fulfillment and emotional contentment is derived from serving others without any concern for my own wants and desires whatsoever...
When a woman I've been dating tells me she has a date with another guy, the first thing I want to do is ask her if she'll let me help her get ready for her evening with him, by giving her home a good cleaning, doing her laundry, giving her a pedicure and some spending money for her romantic date, and I experience my sexual interaction with her vicariously, through the indescribable pleasure her male lover enjoys when he's having sex with her. I know that's bizarre, but that's what makes me so happy.
My sexuality has evolved to the point at which the most important and exciting moment of my entire existence is when I'm listening to the guy who's dating her during their erotic trysts, and hearing the exact moment when he shudders in ecstasy and begins to writhe, moan and gasp in what symbolizes my frustration and futility -- his climax! I listen intently as he blasts stream after glorious stream of his hot semen against the tender back wall of her bucking pussy...
Wow! I can't believe anyone would be like that. But of course there are a lot of things I don't know or understand. I learned something new today on this site. 🧐
The best way I can explain it is that I'm fearful of not being able to properly satisfy her if I try to have intercourse with her, and serving her in a supportive role when she's having sex with him just makes so much more sense. I still enjoy a wonderful sexual relationship with her, she just doesn't let me fuck her, that's all.
And you're right -- I'm not nearly as much of a wimp as I give the impression of being, I just enjoy being humiliated. It takes a strong sense of self to endure such ignominious degradation.
Man it will be so much better if you have sex yourself.
@Juxtapose You say that, and I know you mean well in your assessment, but considering the fact that the most important and exciting event of my entire existence is your climax, I know just as surely as I know the sun will rise tomorrow that there is nothing in this world more thrilling than that moment... that unbelievable moment when the one thing I covet above all else occurs -- and I hear you shudder in ecstasy as you blast stream after glorious stream of your hot, sticky white semen against the tender back wall of her bucking pussy.
Damn man, that turned me on like hell 🤣 You're making me wanna cuck you and fuck your girl, knowing you're getting off to it like a filthy little pervert. I bet you would even like me to father a child for you, wouldn't you?
Fuuuck that's hot.
@Juxtapose Oh, it gets better -- much better. This philosophy is about much more than just placing your VIP (very important penis) on the pedestal that it so obviously belongs on -- I'm a firm believer in total, complete and unrestricted servitude to the luckiest guy in the world -- the guy who's dating, bedding and climaxing inside the woman who owns me, which is a long winded way of saying that if you were dating my mistress, your house would be kept spotlessly clean, your laundry washed, dried, ironed and folded every week, your car washed, waxed, detailed and vacuumed regularly, your yard work, painting, maintenance, etc done, and if I'm fortunate enough to be granted the privilege of providing more personal service, your feet would be kept flawlessly pedicured, washed, massaged and orally worshipped as well as any other task you may decide to assign.
And, yes, it would be a tremendous honor to raise, nurture and provide financial support for the child which resulted from your relationship with my owner. I would, of course insist that any and all legal responsibility for said financial support is my burden to bear.
Do I think you're superior to me? Of course, sir; I don't think there can be even the slightest doubt of that.
So I can get dumped again? Get outta my face.
In my humble opinion, you would be highly unlikely to be dumped in the first place, because women generally don't squander an opportunity to have an intimate relationship with a masculine, upper echelon stud such as yourself. In fact, I think you're a much more suitable candidate for the role of her boyfriend than as the loser who got dumped. Being summarily dismissed in ignominy is more my territory, so that a real man can subsequently reap the benefits of the wimp's travails of shame and humiliation.
@Billlewis Totally! That's the whole point of it. And if she leaves nevertheless? It doesn't matter. There is room for a better girl and she is not it.
Oh my goodness... for anyone out there who's following this thread, *this^^^ is why men like Mr. Unit1 are dating and having sex with such breathtakingly attractive women as casually as you or I would make a trip to the grocery store, and conversely, guys like me are relegated to playing with ourselves while we're drooling over their pictures... lol. But here's the kicker -- there's nothing wrong with that, as long as we're mindful of being able to maintain our perspectives.
@Billlewis i saw in another question you like financing your girl and watching her getting satisfied by others.
Whatever floats your boat. More power to us. or just me for that matter. 😉
You are absolutely magnificent, sir, and I know I'm not worthy even to kiss your feet.
ID TELL HER TO FUCK OFF CUZ SHE'LL JUST DO THE SAME THING AGAIN.
Quite possibly.
Too many variables to answer. All depends on the circumstances and the depth of the relationship.
It would be next to impossible for her to even start a conversation. Not likely she could even get that far.
NOPE
https://www.youtube.com/embed/tw429JGL5zo(applies to men also)
Nope. To me it smell "I had this other guy, but that did not work out, so i take you back while i find someone else again"
Lol no chance
Never, ever, take a woman back. She left to go fuck some Chad Thundercock, then he dumped her and she came running back. The next time a Chad comes along she will bounce again. Tell that bitch to hit the road.
"You decided to dump me because you thought you could do better, now you come crawling back because you realize I'm the best you can do. Why on earth would I get back together with someone who clearly just views me as her backup plan?"
My pride says get the f out but I dont know what would I do in that situation... If she really makes me crazy even I would think about trying... I don't know
You won't really know until it actually happens.
If I wasn't good enough for her then, why am I now? What's to stop her from leaving me again? She better have a good answer.
I'd only take her back if she rode me gard to orgasm 😏
No. We broke up for a reason. Go to the dude you cheated on me with.
A real Chad would have found a new woman by then.
Tbh, I'd probably have replaced her already...