Are women the only ones who can have boundaries in relationships?

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Women say not sharing emotions is toxic but so is sharing them. It’s all a joke -  JONAH HILL EX-GF POSTS HIS ALLEGED TEXTS... Blasts Him as 'Misogynist' -

blueonblack22 · Accepted Answer

It would be one thing if she cried, bitched and whined about this in her private circle. She doesn’t like his standards? Fine. Nobody is forcing her to date him. She can walk.

But it’s the fact she has to be a public crybaby about it that is so gross. She knows nobody in the public square is going to mock her openly. She knows she can get away with playing the double standard being a woman. She knows she can find shoulders to cry on and not take any accountability despite the fact she is trying to date up (Jonah Hill is without a doubt richer and more famous than her.) Some of Jonah Hills standards were stupid but others were absolutely justified (e. g. like him not wanting her to hang out with other guys)

But again it’s not her stupid actions and crybaby entitlement that bothers me. It’s how f*cking society takes her corner just because she’s a woman. If a lesser known man happened to date a big name female celebrity (much more rare but it has happened vice versa) and she placed “standards” on him and went public crybaby he would be considered bitch of the year.

So yes I will waste 5 minutes writing about this on GAG. She deserves the negative backlash because the media wouldn’t dare criticize her.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

If that was the case then the relationship wouldn’t survive period , you can’t expect someone to do for you if you can’t do for them. When boundaries our set in a relationship you both have a choice on whether you want to continue that relationship with that person or not , if you agree to stay with that person, then those boundaries need to be your top priority or you would be a lying selfish piece of shit , so it’s still your choice , All relationships our choices , we can choose to be with someone or not , if you want love to grow between the both of you , you both have to choose your relationship with each other over everyone else , if you can’t do that for someone then don’t expect them to do that for you , You both have to be on the same page for love to grow between the both of you and for the relationship to survive , it can’t be one sided period , if it turns one sided be prepared to be dumped or left for someone else

Anjoomkabir · Accepted Answer

You can have boundaries but they should be reasonable boundaries.

Jonah hill telling his surfer instructor girlfriend that she can't surf with other men is an unreasonable boundary. It's like a woman telling her husband that he can't have a female receptionist. Or it's like jonah hill's girlfriend telling him he can't kiss his female co stars. Most men would call those women insecure and jealous.

Another thing is he's telling her how to hang out with her own friends. Fair enough, you don't need to like her friends. But you can't set a time and place as to when and where she can see them. That's controlling.

ShesRad80 · Accepted Answer

she's delusional, to show personal texts across the internet is such a violation, no matter how the relationship ended. and it was 2 years ago he moved on! he wasn't out of line, he had valid points. he was communicative, expressed his feelings in a healthy way. now that he's moved on and a new father she posts and tries to get him cancelled or backlash, shows her true intentions of showing those texts and hopefully it backfires on her

MzAsh · Answer

He can have these boundaries if he wants. And a woman can have a boundary not to date a him if she doesn’t want to.

DextroShade · Answer

Jonah Hill is a very high-value man who knows his worth and as such won't tolerate this sort of hoe behavior from a woman he takes seriously. His boundaries were extremely reasonable: he didn't want her hanging around dudes or toxic hoes and posting slutty pics on IG. He didn't insult her or abuse her; he simply stated his boundaries and told her that if she didn't want to abide by them she could leave. It sounds like she is now all bitter from having lost a high-value man and knows she won't get another chance with a man as valuable as Hill. Instead of doing any sort of introspection or taking any accountability she decides to lash out on social media and trying to publicly shame Jonah for having the audacity to have boundaries. Sounds like he dodged a hollowpoint bullet by not marrying this bitch.

inhua · Answer

wow who didn't see this coming from Jonah Hill?

Sarah Brady must've thought Jonah Hill would be simp because he's unattractive and she found out the hard way he won't bend his knee that easily even though his physical appearance dictates he should

anyway, men are not allowed to have boundaries especially if he ain't attractive. men's boundaries are labeled as "insecure" or "oppressive"

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

Jonah Hill is a little bitch and he's always whining about his "mental health" issues. He even made an entire movie about it.

No, women are not the only ones who can have boundaries, but I don't feel sorry for Jonah. He made his own bed

provokeesmokee · Answer

She's his ex.

There's no relationship to put boundaries on.

If she posted revenge porn, that's one thing. But posting texts? That's trashy and drama fueling, but not really crossing any lines.

If Hill didn't want it public, he shouldn't have put it in writing.

Being an idiot is not a boundary to respect.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Of course not. You know, the funny thing about having boundaries is that, when you have strong boundaries, you end up repelling people who don't have a clear sense of boundaries?

It's interesting how that works. You avoid habitual line steppers by making your lines clear.

worldscolide · Answer

Women can deny this all they like, but they tend to weaponize vulnerability. Use it against the man. Its sad.

Blueeyes81 · Answer

No but he knew this about her going into the relationship. To me that's absurd. Have boundaries but don't get into a relationship with someone when they are already that way. You shouldn't be trying to change them to conform to your boundaries. Your boundaries should dictate who you get into a relationship to begin with.

Taurusmoon · Answer

I guess everyone should have boundaries be that men or women.

ChefPapiChulo · Answer

That bitch is crazy. Should have just dumped her.

Anonymous · Answer

Insecurity post. Have the relationship you want and don’t worry about hypothetical gender roles and boundaries. If you just want to talk about some celebrity drama, don’t frame as some dumb ass question.

Sasha0426 · Answer

Whoever is the 14% who said yes, something’s wrong with you.

JesseP1nk · Answer

Both should have boundaries. But when men have boundaries then women see it as they try to control them and call them insecure.

Christoff92 · Answer

It's like men are stupid when they're not when it comes to boundaries.

ChooChooHaha · Answer

No. Double standard bullshit.

stepyo99 · Answer

Women are sociopaths, weather at 11

nastyb · Answer

if thats your way of hating on women...

monghjay2 · Answer

men have boundaries and rules

imfreeze95 · Answer

Yes I have limits in my relationships.

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