Based on what you've described, yes I would break up with this person. A few reasons:
1. The lack of trust. Him liking girls' bikini pictures and DMing them telling them they're pretty is inappropriate and breaks your trust. That's not something you do in a monogamous relationship.
2. The invalidation and disrespect. Him saying you're "not worth it" for dates and that he doesn't prioritize you is hurtful and disrespectful. A good partner would never say that.
3. The lack of effort. Him consistently hanging out with friends after work and only calling you later at night shows a lack of effort and care for your relationship.
4. The resentment. You saying you constantly nag and complain shows a level of resentment building up over time. Resentment often kills relationships.
5. The lack of compatibility. It seems like you have different needs and priorities in a relationship. You want more effort, attention and intimacy. He wants to focus more on his social life and friendships. You're ultimately just not on the same page.
In summary, while he may have good qualities, the issues you described around trust, communication, compatibility and care would likely prevent a healthy, fulfilling relationship long-term. The resentment will only continue to build if the core problems are not addressed.
My advice would be to have an honest, open discussion with him about how his actions make you feel and what you need from the relationship. If he's unwilling or unable to meet your needs and work on issues together, then breaking up may be the healthiest decision. You deserve a partner who prioritizes you, makes you feel cared for and respected.
Hope this helps! Let me know if you have any other questions.
Based on what you've described, yes I would break up with this person. A few reasons:
1. The lack of trust. Him liking girls' bikini pictures and DMing them telling them they're pretty is inappropriate and breaks your trust. That's not something you do in a monogamous relationship.
2. The invalidation and disrespect. Him saying you're "not worth it" for dates and that he doesn't prioritize you is hurtful and disrespectful. A good partner would never say that.
3. The lack of effort. Him consistently hanging out with friends after work and only calling you later at night shows a lack of effort and care for your relationship.
4. The resentment. You saying you constantly nag and complain shows a level of resentment building up over time. Resentment often kills relationships.
5. The lack of compatibility. It seems like you have different needs and priorities in a relationship. You want more effort, attention and intimacy. He wants to focus more on his social life and friendships. You're ultimately just not on the same page.
In summary, while he may have good qualities, the issues you described around trust, communication, compatibility and care would likely prevent a healthy, fulfilling relationship long-term. The resentment will only continue to build if the core problems are not addressed.
My advice would be to have an honest, open discussion with him about how his actions make you feel and what you need from the relationship. If he's unwilling or unable to meet your needs and work on issues together, then breaking up may be the healthiest decision. You deserve a partner who prioritizes you, makes you feel cared for and respected.
Hope this helps! Let me know if you have any other questions.
Based on what you've described, yes I would break up with this person. A few reasons:
1. The lack of trust. Him liking girls' bikini pictures and DMing them telling them they're pretty is inappropriate and breaks your trust. That's not something you do in a monogamous relationship.
2. The invalidation and disrespect. Him saying you're "not worth it" for dates and that he doesn't prioritize you is hurtful and disrespectful. A good partner would never say that.
3. The lack of effort. Him consistently hanging out with friends after work and only calling you later at night shows a lack of effort and care for your relationship.
4. The resentment. You saying you constantly nag and complain shows a level of resentment building up over time. Resentment often kills relationships.
5. The lack of compatibility. It seems like you have different needs and priorities in a relationship. You want more effort, attention and intimacy. He wants to focus more on his social life and friendships. You're ultimately just not on the same page.
In summary, while he may have good qualities, the issues you described around trust, communication, compatibility and care would likely prevent a healthy, fulfilling relationship long-term. The resentment will only continue to build if the core problems are not addressed.
My advice would be to have an honest, open discussion with him about how his actions make you feel and what you need from the relationship. If he's unwilling or unable to meet your needs and work on issues together, then breaking up may be the healthiest decision. You deserve a partner who prioritizes you, makes you feel cared for and respected.
Hope this helps! Let me know if you have any other questions.
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Based on what you've described, yes I would break up with this person. A few reasons:
1. The lack of trust. Him liking girls' bikini pictures and DMing them telling them they're pretty is inappropriate and breaks your trust. That's not something you do in a monogamous relationship.
2. The invalidation and disrespect. Him saying you're "not worth it" for dates and that he doesn't prioritize you is hurtful and disrespectful. A good partner would never say that.
3. The lack of effort. Him consistently hanging out with friends after work and only calling you later at night shows a lack of effort and care for your relationship.
4. The resentment. You saying you constantly nag and complain shows a level of resentment building up over time. Resentment often kills relationships.
5. The lack of compatibility. It seems like you have different needs and priorities in a relationship. You want more effort, attention and intimacy. He wants to focus more on his social life and friendships. You're ultimately just not on the same page.
In summary, while he may have good qualities, the issues you described around trust, communication, compatibility and care would likely prevent a healthy, fulfilling relationship long-term. The resentment will only continue to build if the core problems are not addressed.
My advice would be to have an honest, open discussion with him about how his actions make you feel and what you need from the relationship. If he's unwilling or unable to meet your needs and work on issues together, then breaking up may be the healthiest decision. You deserve a partner who prioritizes you, makes you feel cared for and respected.
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