Could you be with someone who doesn't get along with your friends?

[beebella]

I probably could

I probably couldn't

I've done it before and would do it again

I've done it before and wouldn't do it again

Something else

[DaveJord]

I've done it before and I never would never ever do it again. Just saying it's just a means for her to isolate and control You by running off all your friends. And your friends being good friends, don't tell you the things that you really should know because you're trying to respect you and your new found relationship. But then after you eventually break up with her all your friends tell you how she's a total bee and how they're so happy that you two are no longer together.

[dolemite58]

i assume girls don’t like their bf’s friends in general tbh. like ya they’ll pretend to be friendly to their face but they’ll always voice their real opinion in private. One of my best friend’s wife pretends to be nice but actually hates my guts 😂

[beebella]

I'm sure she has a valid reason for hating you. 😂

[dolemite58]

my more middle class mexican buddies are settling down with these horrible white women and i just don’t understand it 😭

[beebella]

Maybe that's why she hates you, because you say shit like that. 🤣

[dolemite58]

i don’t say it to their faces 😂 she’s such a karen, you’d immediately understand my point of view if you met her.

[ventustalks]

Depends. My boyfriend has a golden personality but he differs from my friends in so many aspects that for my friend it might ne impossible to be friends with him, even though they appreciate his behaviours in our relationship. This is okay, I can clearly work with this since I don't need them to be best friends but if my friends does not get along with him because he is making me sad then things would change.

[jeffend888]

You’re young, so you get a pass. But eventually you’re going to learn that it doesn’t matter how “golden” someone’s personality is. There will always be a person or people who don’t like you.

[sheenagwapa]

i don't have friends and even if i have friends i don't think they will have much bearing in my life i simply don't have much beatiful experience with friendship so i cannot relate to thise people who are so into their friends. even if me and my ex separate he is still the perdon who i felt valued mw. friends on the other hand you are fakes who wanna make me unhappy in life

[Tenderhearted]

I think it depends on how much value you place on your friendships. Because if you feel like your friends are replaceable you’ll date whoever at the risk of losing them. But if you value your friendships to a great extent you wouldn’t put those relationships at jeopardy for dating someone you barely even know and on top of that doesn’t like your friends?
Your friends are often a representation of you, so really that person doesn’t like you… lol

[ChiTown33]

It kind of depends why she doesn't get along with them. I mean I'm not that close to most of my friends. So it probably wouldn't be that big of an issue. So I could deal if she found something objectionable about them. Hell I find something objectionable with most of them🤣 But if it's a matter of her just wanting to control me and who I know? Then she can kick rocks!

[CaGirl2023]

No i could not be friends with a girl or a guy who doesn't get along with my good friends because it is going to cause me a lot of problems with my friends. I don't like be be stressed out when I am with my friends. My friends are going to talk to me about this new person they don't like and I am going to have to listen to them complain. I would let this new friend go because to me it's not worth it.

[Little_Bumblebee]

I mean, he wouldn't have to be best friends with them.

The ideal would be if we all could hang out together.
But at least I would want him to get along with my friends and not be an idiot or talk badly about them afterwards.

[molonski2]

If I really liked them , they probably would get along with everyone , but if they didn't I would not be concerned , as I'd continue to pursue what I wanted , buggar the so called " Friends " they come and go anyhow.

[Drooogie4]

No.

And I couldn't if I didn't like his friends either. I don't want to be with someone who's friends i can't respect at the very least.

We don't all have to be CLOSE, but if were to openly dislike them, it's not gonna work.

[jeffend888]

You do realize that your friends are secondary in your life right? And in about 5 years they will disappear because they will have their own nuclear families.

[Drooogie4]

@jeffend888 yes.
But I don't want to date someone who hates my friends because they are a very important factor in my current life.

[jeffend888]

You’re missing my point and the big picture.

[petitedollbabee]

I keep my relationships and friendships mostly separate anyway, so yes I could do that. Aslong as they’re civil when having to be around each other on rare occasions.

[Joker_]

I could be with someone who doesn't get along with your friends

[beebella]

What friends?

[Joker_]

yeah lol

[serious]

Yes of course I can. However, this scenario won't happen because I only wish to be single.

[XXblack88]

No probably not. They would have to have a good reason why he doesn't get along with my friends.

[spartan55]

Absolutely not @beebella 🐝, I dumped a girlfriend because of this problem. Never regretted it.

[jeffend888]

Yeah because friends don’t matter. Friends will always drift out of your life anyway as you get older because they will get their own nuclear families.

[jahaims]

It would never happen. If you have good friends that says a lot about your partner not getting along. I have had the same friends for 10 years. If they don't get along with her there is a reason

[silkjames]

Yes of course some of my friends are aggravating she just doesn't understand them like I do lol

[Luopio27]

As long as her friends aren't

• Toxic
• Wanted by the FBI
• Friends with Bugs Bunny

[Sharkstealth]

Friends don't last forever anyways. I know how could the Spice Girls be wrong? They were young girls that's why.

[Anonymous]

Yep, unless she gets annoyed about a friends day out
She doesn't necessarily have to get along with them
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[Lyndsielee666]

I beat up my best friends ex so he didn’t like me much 😒 they stayed together for four years after that

[Anonymous]

Means you got the wrong friends. or your man doesn't fit with you

[AmeerX]

She loves me and that's all that matters. She doesn't need to meet my friends anyways

[LiamJHayden]

Nope. My friends have had my back for years, in some cases since I was in 1st grade or earlier. If she didn't get along with them, I'd dump her.

[Twalli]

I date friends, so they're usually friendly with my other friends.

[Fuentes]

Lol no to much struggle and drama I want peace lol not all that

[Jmmmfi4]

I don't have any friends so it wouldn't be an issue

[Huntingnfishin]

Most days I don't like my friends, so screw those guys!

[John-spark-naked]

I can't stay there where my friends are frustrated because of other's

[DizzyDesii]

Yea pretty used to that

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I probably couldn't do so

[Alex-Snow]

Probably not.. it would be too difficult

[AngryCarl2]

No, that would be a big old red flag.

[Grovermint]

As long as they're civil, I don't care.

[gothbxtch]

depends why