I guess I will take this one on, but you probably will not like the answer.
So honestly there is legitimate research, that has been done on the human mind and growth process. You can google it yourself; I am not going to take the time to cite it all.
So, research had shown that female mind matures faster than the male mind. This because women, have twice as much two-way communication between both hemispheres of the brain younger in life. These two-way communications, results in her brain creating neuro pathways and networks between both hemispheres. As we all, mature through adolescents, your brain starts to realign the networks, in order to improve neuro communication and eliminate, unneeded ones.
Throughout adolescence, the average female is roughly 3 years ahead of men in their mental/emotional development. Women brains are fully developed by the age of 22, and men on average are not fully developed until 25. Most woman average full emotional development by the age of 32, and most men are not fully emotionally developed until the age of 43... so that is a 11-year gap in emotional development.
This in large part due to the fact that men on average have 75% more muscle mass then woman. So, the man's brain must maintain the neuro pathways to promote physical growth longer and later into adolescents then woman brains do. Men do not fully physically mature until 24, and women are full physically mature by 16 to 18. So, women minds can focus on brain development at an earlier age then men.
So, this all means that age directly correlates with brain growth, that directly correlates to emotional development. So, when you as a 27-year-old woman, are probably 3 to 6 years more emotionally developed then the average man your age.
The difference is that woman, attach more meaning and emotional energy to and towards love, then the average guy does. So, guys fall in love on a more basic needs level, then women. Yes, we feel love, yes men desire love... but we are mentally, emotionally and even physically unable to experience love on the same level as a woman until later in life.
This why you see a lot of younger women with older guys. Because a man's brain is on average 10% larger than a womans, but hers is more developed much earlier in life. So older fully developed, mentally and emotionally mature men can be more attractive to some women. So, yes, some men due to their lack of emotionally maturity can fall in love too fast or easily for the wrong reasons... but as men get older it can take much longer for them to fall in love, because they have some sense of how significant its.
By the time the guy gets old enough to understand what love really means, the average woman has been in and out love 3 or 4 different times. And this further confuses what we think love is, verse what it really means to us.
"but we are mentally, emotionally and even physically unable to experience love on the same level as a woman until later in life" What age is "later in life"?
Wrong. Women's mental development stops at whatever age they realize they can use their beauty to get men to do things for them and does not resume until she hits the wall and they can't do that anymore, if ever.
As for the younger women preferring older men, it's more because older guys have more status and resources than younger guys.
Also these modern women aren't "falling in and out of love" they are riding the cock carousel and don't even know what love is.
@Sitaraxx hard to say honestly... man are from Venus and woman are from Mars.
I don't the answer, I am just saying as a man, I love women. I love being with them, hanging around with them, doing things with them, talking with them... hugging them... all that. I love all that.
But for some women that's not enough, there needs to be more. And I think that's the enternal struggle. In a lot of ways men like simple things, simple pleasures and the more complex it gets, the harder it is to manage on a day to day. And life is just like that.
I don't think that women fall for love harder than men, it ain't a private feeling only for women, i guess it depends on the person wether a guy or a girl... Everyone is different so falling in love can have a of meanings and needs depending on each person or each couple...
I feel like men in my experience fall first. But I am highly guarded of my heart. Just growing up in a toxic ass house with my parents marriage and divorce. My mom was a terrible role model for a young girl. 😩🤷🏽♀️
She would cheat on my dad at my grandparents house when everyone was at work and take me there with her. I came home I asked my dad why was mom meeting another man at grandmas. He beat the shit of her. So she blamed me but I was only like 5 I don't know. It was hell she was just a manipulative liar. And still is to this day. She has been married a bunch and she is just really unstable with her feelings and emotions.
Yeah of course now I do. At that age I didn't. I just wondered why my mommy was treating me differently. I had to work on myself a lot and just kind of cut those negative and unstable ties with her. Therapy definitely helped me clean out the closet full of all the emotional baggage she bestowed upon me throughout the years. My dad stayed with her because of my little brother and I. He asked me when I was 8 would my little bro and myself go with him. We said we would stay with mom.. really didn't want him to leave and we just cried. I didn't really see what the full puzzle was until I grew up and could look back and put all the pieces together. My dad stayed with her ass until I was 21 and my little bro was 16. He asked again. But by that time her narcissistic brain washing had pretty much blinded us completely and we didn't choose him. It took a while to realize my dad stayed for myself and my baby bro. My mother told me I was the reason he left us. I have never told her that he tried to leave with us a couple times but we chose you so he chose to stay. To look out for us. My dad divorced her. My little bro and I come home and our dogs are missing. She took both our dogs to the pound and put them down and said it was dads fault that she had to put them down. Those were our family pets we grew up with them. We were devastated. There was nothing wrong them they were happy and healthy. Her attitude was basically look what your father made me do.
But I figure if it's real love they wouldn't break your heart. Love doesn't kill or destroy. It builds and it grows better with time and age. So if it doesn't last it wasn't meant to last.
Women can fall in love fast with men it takes time.. that is why hookups/friends with benefits are stupid because the girl usually falls and the guy doesn't..
Yes ofcourse I would if he is that good. And about financial thing I believe in sharing and helping. If his situation is that bad I should support him to grow and when he is able and I need support he should.
@StarWarGirl romantic love at its most basic level can't exist if there's no sexual attraction hence why it's conditional. family love is unconditional
There is no such thing as unconditional love in a romantic relationship or marriage. Just including the words "if", "as long as", etc are already conditions, therefore conditional love. Someone wouldn't love a cheater, drug dealer or someone not reciprocating love in return.
The only love that can be unconditional (in general) Is the love of a parent towards his/her child.
Correction: A man's love is unconditional until his wife becomes old and no longer attractive to him. The, she loses his value in her eyes and he loses whatever "love" he had
Seems similar but how know unless a woman? I suspect differences in personality are more important in how one feels. This raises the question … what is love?
This is unanswerable unfortunately if you're looking for a real generalized statement. Everyone is different because not all guys or girls will react the same to falling in love.
Reem no what I’m saying is we look at love different most guys look at it from logic and reasons while women are more of a emotional Approach. But yes me personally I’ll look at the cons and pros to dating her. I don't know maybe I never been in love so maybe I’m not the best for this question
yeah but love can't be logical bc it's an emotion , so u either haven't fallen in love yet or u just don't let yourslef fall in love , men and women are different but still they're both human , when u look at a baby , u don't say put in consideration his gender , u just give him love , a dad won't look at his daughter and say "oh what's the prons and cons of raising her" ,
Ya You probably right like I said I dont think I felt love yet. There was a girl that I kinda dated I liked her but she had kids so I made a choice to not get too serious and told her straight up. I think she loved me but I don't know
@Reem12345reem Is it wrong that your last comment made me picture an alien going REEEEEEEEEE!!! while painting its nails? Because it doesn't feel wrong 🤔
@Chris123432169 Love is like hunger, it does not involve much thinking, so logical is the last thing its going to be. Thats why you have to be picky when choosing a woman, because when love sets in your brain becomes too attached to them to think logically about them.
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