My boyfriend and I got into a fight
He has a tendency to clearly be upset. Then when I ask if he's okay he lies and says nothing.
Then he snaps on me and hangs up on me.
I called him back because that was so incredibly mean.
He then says he had a lot going on he needed me to be there for him.
I genuinely be confused that's what I was trying to do before but u lied and said nothing was wrong and then snapped and yelled at me.
Anyway he said hurtful things like leave me alone so I stayed away and deleted him as a friend.
Today after 3 days he apologized and admitted he was very immature in how he dealt with things. How he wish he just relied on me and told me what was going on. And he wish he stopped relying on himself for everything. And feels bad for snapping on me and I did nothing wrong.
Then he told me to add him because he wanted to play but I deleted him. I was confused and said no just send me a friend request. He said no because it makes him feel desperate.
He felt like he already apologized he doesn't want to send me a friend request on top of it.
Anyway he hung up on me wen I told him no. I deleted him for a reason. It was a consequence of his behavior. because despite his apology he still yelled at me and cussed me.
And he got mad at me for saying no and hung up on me.
Then an hour later he called back. But I missed his call because I was showering. So I called back and asked if he's OK and he said yea he has a headache and I said ok do u need anything he said no. I said do u want me to stay on the phone he said no. He doesn't want or need anything from me.
I'm so confused. I never dated before what's going on am I wrong?
he called back and now is sleeping on the phone. And im typing to u because I told him I feel like he doesn't treat me right
And he said sorry.
Then told me to re add him because he feels desperate to send me a friend request?
For me it feels like back peddling on my self respect. because I did it to stand up for myself
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Since when does a boyfriend need a friend request?
I deleted him because he yelled and cussed at me and hung up on me when he was upset.
I dont kno why he was upset he apologized for taking it out on me. But wanted me to resend him a request.
I thought deleting him was like standing up for myself. Ik the other comment said I was immature.
I'd like advice to become a better person. I thought I was trying to give consequences of his actions. Like mayb if I delete him he'll feel sorry for cussing at me for no reason.
If that is wrong I will humbly apologize. What am I suppose to do if he disrespects me?
y'all sound really immature just break up and move on. Find a real relationship
I'd like to be mature pls tell me the mature way I should have handled the situation I am looking for advice sincerely because this is my first boyfriend and even if we break up I want to kno where I'm doing things wrong so I can be a better person 😞
Talk to people in person for one not over the phone relationships over the phone are not real
Sure seems like it.